I wonder if all the years of the white male being the breadwinner, protector, higher wage earner, etc that was taught when growing up and women knew their place. If when women started expanding over men in work and see black men raising up in the world over so many white men. Mabe that put a seed in the white woman mind that mabe someone other than their white huby is more successful, interesting, looks inviting and has no idea why her attraction turns to the successful black male. Not knowing why, animal instinct, they are drawn despite their upbringing. So perhaps these 2 things, women being able to be less dependent on the white male AND the elevation of all Blacks over the years in so many companies and walks of life from all the struggles. Perhaps both of these things make the white bois value reduced very much to the white women. Many try and chose the Blackman over the wimp. So many are converted without raising one finger and , commercially, women follow the crowd so if this white wife brags to this other white wife and you have a club of white women looking for different and better sex and everything that goes along with spreading their legs for the Alpha male. I think many white girls want the bull and their huby to meet and either the huby submits or, hopefully many wives want, their hubies to put up a fight so they can watch their huby get his ass kicked for the prize to fuck the wife. Like you said . Love it and turned on by it , but, it's not their fault so it's ok to get excited and enjoy it and reward the bull for such a fine show of power and control.White women love seeing white men beaten down. Of course they say they deplore violence, but they love it and are turned on by it.