You’re right... it was the toughest step so far. And it wasn’t just one step ... it was several if not more. The first one is breaking down the natural mental block in a man’s mind... especially one who didn’t really run into this lifestyle with open arms or eyes. In his mind it was gross and it somehow meant he was gay and it was just one more thing that I could use to further his spiral into sexual submission. He was always fighting that... trying to hold on to as much “macho” stuff as he could.
So first I talked about it... over and over and over and over again. My thinking was that the more I talk about it the more common it would become or seem. I especially talked about it while we had sex...or right before I had a date ... and then after a date was a lot of help too. Withholding details about my dates, telling him that if he doesn’t clean me he won’t get those details was also very helpful. I wanted him to understand that to get what he wanted, it was going to take him doing something I wanted... and I had a one track mind at that time on getting him to clean me.
But then, I started telling him that he had already been doing it in small doses ever since I started seeing Robert. Even if I cleaned myself really good... when he would lick me, Robert came way too much for me to get it all. Also, many times Robert would still be on my lips and in my mouth when I’d kiss him right after a date.
All of that made it seem more commonplace as a cuckold and the more he accepted his role the more likely it was that he would do it.
The major help was the cage though. I wouldn’t let him out until he did it. The first time I just made him kiss my pussy... and little by little I’d make him do a little more...and he’d do it ... without much devotion. It was all for me and because I was making him...which wasn’t really what I wanted. I needed it to become something he really wanted ... because if he wanted to do it, it would be clear to both of us that he was really becoming a cuckold ... my cuckold ... for life.
But the real breakthrough happened when he saw how he could make my body respond when he really did it well. Some of my biggest orgasms ever are from him cleaning me. He can make me orgasm with his mouth without there needing to be another man’s cum in me... but something about him cleaning me... still on a high from great sex... my body still tingling from a proper cock... and him showing such submission... plus just the feeling of a tongue inside me or sucking my clit... all that together sends me way over. I literally climb the walls and can almost not take it... I’m trying to get him to stop and he won’t...wowzers!
That was the most important thing for him... to know that he could make me respond to him in ways I never had... the way other men could make me respond with their cocks ... that was the sealer.
But the mental block has to be broken down first.
Does that answer you?
So first I talked about it... over and over and over and over again. My thinking was that the more I talk about it the more common it would become or seem. I especially talked about it while we had sex...or right before I had a date ... and then after a date was a lot of help too. Withholding details about my dates, telling him that if he doesn’t clean me he won’t get those details was also very helpful. I wanted him to understand that to get what he wanted, it was going to take him doing something I wanted... and I had a one track mind at that time on getting him to clean me.
But then, I started telling him that he had already been doing it in small doses ever since I started seeing Robert. Even if I cleaned myself really good... when he would lick me, Robert came way too much for me to get it all. Also, many times Robert would still be on my lips and in my mouth when I’d kiss him right after a date.
All of that made it seem more commonplace as a cuckold and the more he accepted his role the more likely it was that he would do it.
The major help was the cage though. I wouldn’t let him out until he did it. The first time I just made him kiss my pussy... and little by little I’d make him do a little more...and he’d do it ... without much devotion. It was all for me and because I was making him...which wasn’t really what I wanted. I needed it to become something he really wanted ... because if he wanted to do it, it would be clear to both of us that he was really becoming a cuckold ... my cuckold ... for life.
But the real breakthrough happened when he saw how he could make my body respond when he really did it well. Some of my biggest orgasms ever are from him cleaning me. He can make me orgasm with his mouth without there needing to be another man’s cum in me... but something about him cleaning me... still on a high from great sex... my body still tingling from a proper cock... and him showing such submission... plus just the feeling of a tongue inside me or sucking my clit... all that together sends me way over. I literally climb the walls and can almost not take it... I’m trying to get him to stop and he won’t...wowzers!
That was the most important thing for him... to know that he could make me respond to him in ways I never had... the way other men could make me respond with their cocks ... that was the sealer.
But the mental block has to be broken down first.
Does that answer you?