I’m 23 married four years. My husband set me up with an older black man in November. This is something I didn’t want to do but after constantly begging I finally gave in to chat with this man. After weeks of chatting my feelings for this changed. After more begging I agreed to meet for real. We met for dinner then went back to his home. We had drinks and then everything started happening fast. We were on his couch and my husband was sitting on a loveseat. At that point my mind couldn’t process everything that was happening and I lost track of everything. When everything calmed down and my mind cleared up I noticed my husband wasn’t there. I checked my phone and he left a message telling me to have James bring me home in the morning when he was finished with we. I have never been so angry in my life.