it's a coping mechanism. all memes aside, Black replacement is objectively happening, demographic stats don't lie. plus the idea that Black men are superior to whites in many ways - more athletic, bigger dicks, higher sex appeal, better dancers, better fighters etc - is mainstream to the point every white guy knows it. you can't just ignore something so prevalent in pop culture, even when it's (barely) too taboo to openly talk about.
so you could deny it, or try to fight it, but neither will work. you can't stop demographic change, you can't stop white girls thirsting over Black guys. the only way to end this fight is to lose it. give up and find peace in accepting your inferiority.