Hi, Just saying that I caught myself thinking about it in very inopportune times! I don't know if the decision was 'beautiful' or not, but it really changed our lives, definitely for the better! Like you, we don't go into much for the humiliation aspect that is so common in other relationships.
The decision to allow it to happen evolved slowly over a period of a few days while on vacation. It was far from a snap decision, but slowly evolved. By the third day, I was more interested in HIM, not necessarily his race. However I wouldn't be telling the truth if I were to say that it didn't become readily apparent when 'the moment of truth' started to unfold.
Whatever your relationship status, always remember that the woman controls the sexual development of that relationship. You're right in that if she takes a Black lover, she, and to a smaller degree, her Bull will determine how you'll fit into that dynamic.
Best of luck
Donna
The decision to allow it to happen evolved slowly over a period of a few days while on vacation. It was far from a snap decision, but slowly evolved. By the third day, I was more interested in HIM, not necessarily his race. However I wouldn't be telling the truth if I were to say that it didn't become readily apparent when 'the moment of truth' started to unfold.
Whatever your relationship status, always remember that the woman controls the sexual development of that relationship. You're right in that if she takes a Black lover, she, and to a smaller degree, her Bull will determine how you'll fit into that dynamic.
Best of luck
Donna