Stuart Bowman rings a bell. For some reason I remember that name but not why.
Another is
@ItsGerw. Of Euro origin so language is a bit contorted (sometimes deliberate). I remember him from the early naughties or maybe even the early 90's. Back then it was yahoo mIRC, so no google nor twitter.
As for the women, there have been countless ones. One I recall, she was in the middle of a protracted divorce from her white catholic hubby (who didn't believe in divorce). Meantime she was being protected (and fucked) by a black police officer. He also had another bisexual black friend who also used to come around and join the fun.
Eventually the courts took away her son and she descended into slavery. I think another black guy bought her out. And I lost contact with her.
But before that we used to indulge in a lot online scenarios. I remember I had special jewellery made for her and sent it to her via post. She said she received them but the anklet got broken and bits were lost under the bed or something. It was when the police officer was fucking her.
In that time the terms bnwo etc did not exist, but obeah did, and people fucked, cheated, all sorts of shenanigans went on.
Also back then I was heavily into interracial and had not yet formed the opinion that the US's race terminology is political (not scientific), and believed blacks had bigger dicks. Which is both a fallacy and extremely unfair on dark skinned people (sexualized them).
Have a good day.