My wife and I are new to this lifestyle outside Philadelphia, we talked about it in the bedroom for years and finally one night out at the bar she saw an ex boyfriend and it told me to go home and that she would let me know what was happening and that she wouldn’t do anything without telling me or FaceTime in me, one hour later, she said she was on her way back home with him and what happened in that bedroom has both of us hooked. She now wants me to set up meetings with strangers so that she can get picked up at that same bar. She would love something consistent but one night stands are good.