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My Father Wants to Join

Emma Lang said:
Not had any more communication with my father since he dropped in on me that day, I do not know if he has joined here, if he has he has not made his presence known to me.
But I have been thinking about why he came over as he did, it does seem strange. So I have decided to to message him telling him I want to have a chat with him and can he come over sometime.

What harm could it do? If he is warming to the idea of me with black men, then I can help him along with that journey in so many ways.
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I can see only overall positive outcomes from this course of action. You don't need me to tell you what to do but personally I think you should definitely go through with this. From my perspective it's just a ****** trying to get closer and that is a noble goal if I've ever heard one.
 
Emma Lang said:
Not had any more communication with my father since he dropped in on me that day, I do not know if he has joined here, if he has he has not made his presence known to me.
But I have been thinking about why he came over as he did, it does seem strange. So I have decided to to message him telling him I want to have a chat with him and can he come over sometime.

What harm could it do? If he is warming to the idea of me with black men, then I can help him along with that journey in so many ways.
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Just be careful.
Nothing may come of it. Or it may take years before he comes around for phase two.
Expecting it to develop in days or weeks may not only be unrealistic but you may also put yourself at risk of harm, if he's not ready. I just don't want anybody to get hurt.

I don't know you or your ******, but my parents died of old age, many of my relatives died of Covid overseas, without any of them getting any opportunity to learn about my sexuality.

There are differences, of course, between you and I. I'm not a very outgoing person, who has had to hide my bisexuality, simply because the culture won't accept it, and parents, siblings would not only be devastated, ashamed, in denial, but also the society condemns gays/bisexuals. So I maintain my denial. Both for relatives state of mind but also my safety.

Your *** will be from another culture and another era to yours. He will not only have to learn to live with it, but learn that he can live with it. Then he may be able to embrace his long lost ******** for who she is. Acceptance may come soon, later, or never. But he clearly still has feelings for his ********. He just may not know how to deal with it yet. It may be all too strange for him.

Take care of yourself! Love yourself too! But be prepared to leave them to their pace to catch up. And live your best life in the meantime.
 
eligible_cuck said:
Just be careful.
Nothing may come of it. Or it may take years before he comes around for phase two.
Expecting it to develop in days or weeks may not only be unrealistic but you may also put yourself at risk of harm, if he's not ready. I just don't want anybody to get hurt.

I don't know you or your ******, but my parents died of old age, many of my relatives died of Covid overseas, without any of them getting any opportunity to learn about my sexuality.

There are differences, of course, between you and I. I'm not a very outgoing person, who has had to hide my bisexuality, simply because the culture won't accept it, and parents, siblings would not only be devastated, ashamed, in denial, but also the society condemns gays/bisexuals. So I maintain my denial. Both for relatives state of mind but also my safety.

Your *** will be from another culture and another era to yours. He will not only have to learn to live with it, but learn that he can live with it. Then he may be able to embrace his long lost ******** for who she is. Acceptance may come soon, later, or never. But he clearly still has feelings for his ********. He just may not know how to deal with it yet. It may be all too strange for him.

Take care of yourself! Love yourself too! But be prepared to leave them to their pace to catch up. And live your best life in the meantime.
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Thank you for your concern, I am not expecting miracles, I have spent the last few years living my life with the knowledge that I may never see or speak to my parents again, I was OK with that and accepted that it must be that way if I am to live the life I want in the world that I desire.

The fact that now my *** has shown the smallest interest in what I am doing, has upset that peace that I had. In one way I wish he would just get out of my life for good, if he can not accept my lifestyle then there is no place for him in my life, but on the other hand, if I do not pursue this small interest that he has shown, I may miss the opportunity he could be giving me to bring him closer to me and for him to accept this life style, plus I have made it my mission to convert as many people to the NBWO as possible to make it reality as soon as possible, it would be very wrong of me to not try and convert someone who may be showing me they are interested.

I am not expecting him to change overnight, I know him to well to expect that, but change has to start somewhere, and if I can convert him to the NBWO, then that would have been a major achievement.

It breaks my heart to hear how you have had to hide your sexuality, even from your own ******, I understand why you have, but as a society, we should be a lot more accepting tan we appear to be. We should not have to hide what we are from anyone. I chose not to and it got me thrown out my home and disowned by my parent, so I get it, but its not right. XxX
 
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