I have wondered what really must happen for it to be "cheating" and when does it become cheating? It reminds me of an old Seinfeld episode when someone, I think it was Elaine, asked when had sex occurred. Jerry responded when the nipple appears! Now I think it is more than that to be called cheating. I'm of the opinion that if a condom is i used it isn't cheating. If it is bareback with no creampie it isn't cheating. For it to be considered cheating a creampie must be the conclusion. Now if you replace cheating with cuckoldry, I'd say the same rules apply! Comments?