Chastity?

[Saphira]

This is difficult to judge from my standpoint. I could see being cucked by a different woman, but I found a wife who wants to please me and believes I should make all the final decisions in our home.

At this point, I'd never let her be in control. If she tried I'd probably leave her... but I know she won't.

The other issue I have with this is... I would rather masturbate than have intercourse... it feels far better... but my wife is so giving in other ways I am giving to her by making love to her two times a week on average.

Why not maybe try to change your behavior towards her ?
Maybe then she would start to fill the blank by assuming more authority. Not the day to the one after, but overtime maybe, if that's really what you seek I mean.

 

[PaleFail]

I appreciate your suggestion, but I like my comfort and privilege too much.

I kink hard on the idea of women taking power and pride away from men against the men's will. I don't enjoy males willingly submitting or wanting to submit.

 

[KarenMWSlut4Blacks]

The question I ask myself is : did it work in fine ?
Does Rob cum his pants multiple times a day ? Because if it really works, I should do that training too before going back to my cage, it could avoid way too many problems on my side.
I'm quickly aroused and a premature like him, so that's why I identified myself

As far as I was concerned it worked perfectly and there were no unauthorised erections when I had someone staying over with me.

On a regular basis he had to make time to check the porn on his phone every few hours, to see if he needed to make a bathroom visit. So he was usually drained but if he did have an unexpected erection a premature ejaculation was the back up - like wearing a garter with stockings that are already held up by my Basque.

The secret to the process is to not waste time looking at the porn, the reason for watching porn is to get you ready to masturbate, so once you're aroused you have to turn it off and get on with the job in hand. Remember that you're sitting there to make yourself cum into the toilet bowl as quickly as possible. You're there to destroy that white sperm, so premature ejaculations are a positive because they get it over with in an instant.

 

[Saphira]

As far as I was concerned it worked perfectly and there were no unauthorised erections when I had someone staying over with me.

On a regular basis he had to make time to check the porn on his phone every few hours, to see if he needed to make a bathroom visit. So he was usually drained but if he did have an unexpected erection a premature ejaculation was the back up - like wearing a garter with stockings that are already held up by my Basque.

The secret to the process is to not waste time looking at the porn, the reason for watching porn is to get you ready to masturbate, so once you're aroused you have to turn it off and get on with the job in hand. Remember that you're sitting there to make yourself cum into the toilet bowl as quickly as possible. You're there to destroy that white sperm, so premature ejaculations are a positive because they get it over with in an instant.

Gosh I got that garter analogy, what a long way I've made

Oh ok, I get that. Basically you do the opposite of chastity by keeping his balls empty the most possible time so he can't get aroused by anyone else. I may start doing that after Locktober. I'm so used to getting locked now, I want to try new things, and getting off multiple times a day in seconds sounds totally new for me.

Thanks for sharing your experience with me