Plan On Being

Yes! When I'm feeling extra-naughty, I ask Tom not to watch; because I want to just let myself go and not wonder how he is feeling about it!

I think I can understand how you feel in these types of situations, and also how it makes your husband feel. My wife, always leaves it up to her bulls, whether I'm allowed to watch or can't. Either way, it makes me so incredibly turned on. Much of the time she's in so much ecstasy with them she doesn't even notice if I'm there or not.