My Confused Wife
I am not all that different from other husbands in that I would love to see my wife get fucked by someone else. And if that someone else were black it would be even better!
I brought it up to her a few times over the years and man did she shoot that down quick. I should have expected it though. She is very reserved, old fashioned. I am only the second person she had sex with too. We married at 21, dated two years before that. We are both 49.
Jackie has taken very good care of herself over the years. She likes to work out and at 49 is in amazing shape. She is 5ft 8in 130, long brunette, 34C. Her breast sag some, but not enough to kick her out of bed that’s for sure, she is very hot looking naked. I on the other hand spend to much time tied to the desk at work. I am 5ft 10in, about 220 brn/brn.
So as the years went by, I was always thinking how I could get her to sleep with someone else. Our sex life was very boring. We kissed, petted, and had intercourse. She was not interested in sucking my dick, and actually said it was a dirty act early on when I suggested it. Funny though, she has no issue with me performing oral sex on her. Also, she only orgasms from oral sex, so maybe that’s why she never stopped me.
Last year as I was again pondering how to get her to let me see her fuck someone I came upon an Idea. I was in one of the chat rooms I like to frequent and there was a guy with the screen name cuckold therapist. It occurred to me that she might fall for that.
See, you have to know my wife. She can be very simple at times. You know the term, dumb blond? Well that is her, at times. Yes, she is a brunette, but you get the picture. And don’t think I am just disparaging her, I love her to death. She has a master’s degree in education. She is very smart in some ways. She processes things differently though. This would come to haunt me as I went down this path. The one thing I thought would work to my advantage would also bite me in the end.
So I started looking for a guy online. I found one on reddit that was close, and chatted on line with him a few times. He seemed very cool, so I then set up a meet for me and him so I could better explain it and see if he was up for a challenge.
We met at a local bar, and he was quite impressive in just his looks. He was 40, tall at about 6ft 3in and pretty fit. He told me he was a HS football coach in a nearby town, married and was just looking to fuck a white woman and not looking for any drama. To me he fit the bill to a T.
I then explained to him what I needed. He needed to be a counselor when he met Jackie. Our sex was boring, and even she was not overly thrilled with it. Since she only had one lover before me, she had very little experience. My plan or idea was for him to talk to her about it maybe a few times, then he would tell her he needed to also be physical with her, that showing her was key to her learning and understanding what she is capable of. He just laughed, but said he got it and would work on ways to make her believe it when we met.
I was still pretty anxious about this, I mean here I was very close to making this happen and I starting to wonder if I was nuts for doing this. I kept in touch with him as I pondered should I do it or not and finally told hm I would talk to her.
So on a weekend last September I brought up our sex life to her and asked her how she would rate it. She was a bit irritated with me for asking saying why did it matter, so I pressed her to give it a score from 1 to 10, she gave it a 5 which I was happy she did, it made my case. Then I told her I felt the same way and that it is a shame we both think that and are married so long.
I told her I had reached out to a counselor in that field and inquired on what they could do for us. She was shocked, said that she was unsure she wanted to talk to a stranger about our sex life. I told her I understood, but that so many years had gone by and we did nothing, that it seemed wrong. She said she was open to talking to me, but still apprehensive about it all.
We had sex that night and she said that she loved me and that she felt that if I thought it was that important that she would do it with me, and that just me caring enough to do this made her love me more. I felt like an asshole for lying to her and tricking her, but god I got hard thinking about how this might actually happen! So I set up a meeting in a hotel bar a few weeks down the road. It would not be busy but someplace more comfortable for us to meet the first time.
So the day of the meeting she is dressed nice in a skirt and blouse, nothing to sexy or slutty, but very nice. We get there and she has her pen and paper out, she has questions she has prepared and I am laughing inside. Again, you have to know my wife. So he starts talking and if I didn’t know he was a coach, I would have thought he was the real deal counselor.
They talked a lot, I chimed in here and there and it was pretty interesting. She was embarrassed at times as he asked her about her sex.
Did she enjoy sex, yes
Dose she orgasm from intercourse, No
Has she ever? No
Did she orgasm from oral sex, Yes
Did she give oral sex, No
Has she tried anal sex? Never
How many lovers has she had including me? 2
Does she think size matters? No
He was very thorough. We ended the meeting with a handshake and a hug from them. He suggested another meeting in two weeks. She said ok.
Nothing changed in our sex life, not that I expected that either. She was a bit turned on from all the talk so that helped I guess.
So in two weeks we had him to our house now so we could be more private. There was more talk about sexual acts, he asking her if she would be open to trying oral on me, and she saying no, its not her thing. He talked about her experience with the man before me and she told him all about that. It was nothing but what we have. More and more personal questions and suggestions and more frank discussions. I was impressed with how he made her believe he was legit. We finished again, them hugging and he and I shaking hands.
So the third time it was more of the same, but then towards the end he said that we had reached a point that there was not much more to say. That usually with couples or women at this point he transitions to a more physical approach and that this is fairly common in the industry with these type issues. I could see her face of confusion. She asked him what he meant. He said that he usually with the couple have sex. Not him and the husband, but him and that wife, and that he shows her things, and allows her to see things that she can not see with her husband.
Her face was red as it occurred to her what he was saying. She blurted out “you mean you have sex with me?” He calmly said, it was the only way that most women can see what is possible is if they experience it. We can talk all day, but feeling it, understanding it for yourself is really the only way. Yes, it is quite personal, and I know not all couples want to go that far. But for those that have, I can tell you they are much happier sexually now.
I jumped in and said that I could see how that could work, but that it was a huge step, and that we should consider it, but at the same time maybe we should talk about it. I didn’t want her to think I was to eager and pushing her into this, I wanted this to be her idea.
We ended with again them hugging, touching more.
When he left she was walking around like a confused person lol. Mumbling, sex with someone else, sex with a black man? I was just laughing inside but trying to be serious on the outside. She said she might not be able to do that! That would be wrong, how could anyone be expected to do that. I assured her that there were no expectations. That only if she felt there was a hope of some improvement that then she might consider it. I told her that it was fully up to her and that I even myself was not sure I could handle it, but that I wanted her happy and any cost, and if she chose to allow the sex, that I would fully support her.
I told her also that I heard that many black men were exceptional in bed and then asked her if the black man white woman conversation ever came up with her and her gf’s? She blushed and said yes, that many times they had talked about it, but that so far most never experienced that and she was unsure there was any truth to it. I told her I to had heard many of those same stories and that yes, I am sure some where just that, but you know the term where there is smoke there is fire, so there had to be some truth to them.
That night in bed, she was even more into it, something more exciting I guess, as I did mention her having some sort of sex with a black man, someone new. touching her personally, in over 26 years, had to be a little exciting. When I did go down on her to make her cum she was super wet and came very quickly. I was thinking I was close!!
It took her a few days to process it and I had been talking to him on the side letting him know what was going on. So finally, she said that she would be open, that she thought it highly odd, and that it would be extremely awkward but that to make progress she would try. I had the hardest hardon you could possibly have when she told me. I called him instantly, we set it up for a week later, I said I would get a hotel, might make it easier on her.
So we go, she is just in casual clothes, in her mind this is a medical, therapy session. I am fucking bouncing off the walls inside thinking today is the day I am finally going to see her get fucked and it’s a black stud!.
So they start by sitting on the bed and talking, he explained that this would be longer than the normal hour since there would be no need to rush or put pressure on anyone, so we could relax and take our time. I had brought some drinks which she said was odd since this was a therapy session, but I said that although yes it was, she might want one to relax considering.
We all had a drink while they talked, and he then suggested they undress. She hesitated, I thought she might run, but then said ok, and got up as did he and both undressed. It was almost clinical lol.
As I told you before, she has a great body, her pussy is not shaved, but it is trimmed some, not much but some. So here she is now standing and as he undresses, he is very fit, and his cock was fucking impressive. I am not bi but you have to admire a guy who is packing. He was still soft, but it was a good 5 maybe 6 inches long, hanging and very thick, I was so eager to see what it ended up when it got hard.
So now they are on the bed and she Is laying down on her back and he is telling her he is going to touch her, It is almost like a doctor, he played the role so well I would have been fooled had I not known this was all a game to him and I.
So he is touching her asking her if she likes things and seeing her reaction, he asks her to touch him to get her reaction to touching someone new. Soon her legs are open and he is eating her.. I could tell she is close, and he stops. I can see in her face she is wanting him to keep going, as this is how she orgasms with me, I get the feeling she thinks he missed the timing. He moved up, kissing her breasts, her breathing was heavy now as she was laying there, her legs spread wide open..
He spent some more time on her nipples, breasts her hands finally moving up to his body now, holding him, past the point of being clinical, she was his, into the sex now, as he then knelt up and reached for a condom and asked her if she was ok and ready, she said yes.
His cock was a good 8in, maybe more, and so very very thick! I only know from him asking her about her first lover that he was much like me, about 5 and not very thick. This black cock was really going to stretch her. I watched him as he was kneeling between her legs.. telling her what he was going to do slowly, he was not putting the condom on yet, his cock hard, pointing out, it was only about a foot from her face, her eyes intently staring at it as he told her what was going to happen and asking her if this is what she wanted, she said yes.
Her breathing heavy and fast, and her eyes riveted to his cock as he now slowly put the condom on and then moved down between her legs. His cock now at her hairy entrance, his hands working her pussy telling her now how wet she was, he took his cock head and slowly worked it up and down her slit, spready the juices all over, her breathing sharp as his cockhead hit her clit, then down again, slowly now working his cock in her tight pussy.
He really took his time, going barely a half inch every few seconds and then slowing coming out and then in.. letting it sit there for a while. It was probably a good 4 minutes, maybe 5 before he was fully in her. Her hips now were moving on her own, wanting him to fuck her. He then laid down on her, propping himself on his elbows as he slowly started to fuck her.
He started to ask her how it felt, she could barely answer but said good, he told her no, I want more, I want you to be very descriptive, its important. As he fucked her more and more he kept getting her to talk more and more and soon she is saying yes fuck me with that black cock, god you are so huge, yes yes fuck me.
I am in awe, my sweet, reserved, old fashioned wife, now a wonton slut being fucked by some black guy and loving it. After about 10 minutes, I can see she is about to cum, her body just reacting as she starts to spasm all over his cock, cumming hard, telling him how she is cumming. She is almost screaming, and louder than I ever heard her ever. She has a very intense orgasm and then he slows down his fucking as she regains some composure, her hands and arms holding him like a lover, like a lifeline.
He tells her to be descriptive, tell me what you just felt, she goes on about it being the first time she orgasmed from intercourse, how amazing it was, how awesome it was, how great his cock felt in her.
This goes on for a while her talking, telling him how he made the difference, he was steering the conversation some, but not a lot, just enough for her to register that it was his cock that makes the difference. Size does matter.
He had not orgasmed yet so started to go a bit faster, she said something like can you cum now, and he just laughed some. He told her she was not done orgasming. I don’t think she ever considered she could cum more than once.
He tells her she can cum again and she looks at him in amazement as he starts to fuck her faster and faster. Soon they are fucking hot and heavy again, she is getting closer and closer. He is making her talk more and more as he pulls from her the years of sexual frustration and how the pleasure today was who she really was.
She is literally lost in the passion as she is fucking him back for all she is worth. He then holds her tight and rolls over and now she is no top. It was so fucking hot to see her ride him. She rarely gets on top with me, and this was so fucking hot to see. His hands all over her breasts, playing with her nipples as she bounced up and down on his big black cock. She was talking the whole time telling him how great it felt, how she loved it and so on, if she stopped talking he would tell her to talk more, I know I was leaking cum in my pants and wanted to cum so bad, but knew if I even went to unbutton my pants I would cum so just watched.
It was another 5, maybe 10 minutes and she was having her second orgasm and man was she loud! She was shaking, almost crying as her whole body shook as she came hard on him. She sat there, almost exhausted as her whole body felt the electricity flowing through it.
He then pulled her down to him on her side, they laid there a minute, holding each other like any normal couple. His cock was still hard and he told her to get on all 4’s, and she did, he got behind her and started to fuck her doggie. She had never wanted to do this with me, said that it was degrading, but here she was letting him and not even talking about it. He pounded her pussy for a good 4 or 5 minutes before he finally erupted.. pulling her pussy to him as he filled the condom with his cum.
He then laid back on the bed, spent. He had fucked her for a good 30 minute, they were both worn out. She has a look of pleasure on her face, I don’t know that I had ever seen before. A happy couple, both very spent. There was an awkward silence for a while, then he got into the role again and sat up and asked her if she felt ok, she said yes. He said that he hoped that she was able to learn more about her body today and that it would be a lot to process and that if she had any questions during the week, she could call him any time.
He and I both knew that was a line of shit, he was married and his wife had no clue. I looked at him and him at me and he winked at me.
They got up and dressed, as we all were ready to leave, they had an extended hug, and we walked out. That week was odd around out house, we did talk about it many times. She was honest, said that the sex she had was like she never had sex before. That he was on a whole different level compared to me or her previous lover. I said there might be things over time we could do go get close, but that I just wanted her happy.
The week had gone by and I asked her if she gave any more thought to a second session with him and she said she had thought about it. She said that she did think it would be beneficial, but that she did not want me in the room this time. She said she loved me and that this was something she needed to work on and that me being there made her a bit uncomfortable. I tried to rationalize with her how I wanted to be a part of it, but she was standing her ground. I was a bit pissed, this whole charade was for me to watch him fuck her and here she was kicking me out!
I called him and told him what was up and set up a time for the next week at our house. I had a week to figure out how to watch and started to think about how to talk her into it. We talked later that week and he told me how much he enjoyed her and how tight he thought her pussy was. I told him I was trying to get her to agree to do it again and he wanted it too. I told him how hot It was that he got her so close to cumming eating her and he just laughed. Said he wanted her to get close, that she knew that pleasure, but that he wanted her hot when he fucked her. He said “I will make you this promise, I will never eat her to an orgasm” he said that is your job, with me, she will cum on my cock only. He said as a matter of fact that he rarely even eats pussy, but that she did taste great. It is just something he is not really into. He said the women he is with all want his cock, and they just get fucked or they suck him. He is not there to eat them to any orgasm, just the way he rolls.
Try as I could, she was not budging over the week to let me stay and watch. I was not happy, but at the same time happy she was going to let him fuck her again. I asked her that when he came over if she were going to use the spare bedroom and she said no, she wanted our larger bed. I was quite shocked she picked our marriage bed, but very turned on at the same time.
Since I could not watch, I did listen and man that was hot too. My brain would let me see it from the first time while listening to it now. She was even more into it with me not there. I could tell most of her talking now was all her and not him pulling it out of her.
The sessions were every other week for about 2 months then every week. She would talk to me frankly about them after, telling me what they did, how it felt, and so on. When we had sex it was much more animated than before, but still, she was only cumming from my tongue.
I did talk to him on the side from time to time and it was all cool from his point. He said he had stopped the whole counselor talk and she had not batted an eye about it.
It was now mid January and they had started twice a week. I was not so worried, as I said, I knew he was married and he was just enjoying this fine white woman. But his doing her twice a week was now starting to impact my time with her. I had often tried for seconds, but she would tell me no way and that not only was that dirty or messy, she was way to sore to do anything after. So that left me missing a day, sometimes two and with him getting her more I was starting to get blocked out.
One day I walked in after he had left, she was still laying in bed, exhausted. He had gone to fucking her twice in the same day lately, really using her good. She was laying on her side of the bed and I walked over and as I looked over on my side of the bed there was a huge wet spot. I asked her why the spot was so large. She looked at me and said that they stopped using condoms, that for her to know fully what great sex is, she needed to know it naturally and that they had talked about it and agreed. I almost fell over, I mean that’s fucking hot, I looked at her pussy and man it was a mess, matted, wet, it was all I could do to not lick her right then and there.
Then it occurred to me, I said, and what about birth control? I had had a vasectomy about 10 year previous, so knew she was not on any at the time. She said that she had been to her doctor and told her she was having sex again with someone who was potent and that the doctor did some tests and her doctor told her that it would be like 1 in a million chance of her getting pregnant. But that if she was worried, she could go back on the pill. My wife hated the pill, it made her sick often so decided that if the chances were that high, almost nil, that she would not bother and more than likely she would not get pregnant.
I am not sure how that logic works, but she thought it was enough to then just have sex with him and no protection and not even worry about it. I was stunned, but what could I do.
A few more weeks go by and I called him again to chat as she was acting a little funny and before I talked to her I thought I might talk to him. I never mentioned to him she was no longer on any BC, I figured they had that conversation and if not, I was not going to be the one to tell him. He told me that he had been working her and that he could confidently say that she was now a qualified cock sucker. She had never sucked me. She said it was dirty and she was not going to do that. He said that it took a while and that over the weeks she got better and now is very good at it and he has her swallowing cum too. I almost came in my pants, this was awesome.
I had hoped not only for him to fuck her but somehow get her mind open to something like that and that I might get her to suck me too over time, this was amazing. I told him that if he could, he should suggest she do me too, he just laughed.
A few weeks go by, it’s a Saturday night and we had just finished sex. I had gone to the kitchen for a drink and when I got back to the bedroom she was crying. I asked her what was wrong. She said that her life was just to confusing. That all this sex with me and her sex with her bf….. that was the first time she ever said bf…if you recall, he was a counselor. I said.. wait.. your who? She said, omg.. see, that’s the problem. I am so confused. I love you, but honey, when I am with him, I think I am cheating on you. And when you and I are together like tonight, I am consumed with thinking I am cheating on him.
I tried to rationalize with her that he was there to make her happy, educate her on sex, and yes, pleasure her. That it could be common for this to happen, but to remember, he was married and is a professional, he more than likely does not have these same exact feelings. I tried to be soft and not be to blunt like he just wants to fuck you lol. But she could not hear it. She was trapped in her own mind, a husband, and a lover.
The next day she told me she was going to move out for a while. I was floored! I said why, she said she loved me, but that she had feelings for him and that if she were away, that she could then date us equally. I was beyond confused and asked, what do you mean.
She said look, we live together, we are together a lot, spend time and enjoy each other. I only get my sessions with him. If I were to leave and be apart, then I would not be spending so much time with you and I would not feel so bad that he is getting less.
You know you can argue with people, but this was beyond nuts. I tried, I tried, I tried, but she had her mind made up. Within a week she had moved in with a gf of hers. Someone whom I have never liked and knew would be trouble.
Her gf was single, very attractive, about 46, but just obnoxious if you asked me. And she felt the same way about me.
About two weeks go by and she calls, says we need to go on a date. I am in agreement, so we plan for a few days later. I pick her up and we go to dinner, its good, easy conversation, some of her time with her lover and lots of her work and the new place. We leave, go for a ride, and as we are winding down I ask if she wants to come home, spend the night, or if I could spend the night at her new place. ( I really didn’t want to go to her place since her gf would be there, but didn’t say that). She got this confused look on her face, which by now I know is her trying to figure thing out.
Some of you might think this Is her power play or her staring to cuck me, but its not. Its just who she is, her dumb blond moments that I have come to love and hate. Yes, she is a brunette, but you get the concept.
Took her a minute to formulate it, but she said “honey, you are a bf now, not my husband anymore. I love you, but we are dating, and I know its been a very long time since you were a bf, but you should remember, I don’t have sex on the first date.” And she was as serious as a heart attack.
We kissed some as I dropped her off, but there was no changing her mind. It was the 4th date before we fucked, and then as all good bf’s do, you have to wear a condom.
This has been the way she and I have had sex since, its now September and she is talking about coming home now.
It seems about a month after she moved in with her gf, her bf (counselor) .. brought someone with him when he came over to fuck her. It was her first time being shared. She was beside herself with anger and guilt and humiliation. But she did it. She told me about a month or two later that it happened. She was still trying to process how he was her bf but just wanted her to have sex with a stranger like that. She said she just saw herself as a slut now. I just laughed.
Her GF has set her up with no less than 10 guys. As I told you the gf hates me. And she knows my wife so well. Remember how I told you a bf has to wait until the 4 th date to get sex, well her gf knows that. And has pushed her to double date with her like 3 times a week all different guys, but over and over, till where her gf knows that if my wife dates a guy 4times. (even though she didn’t want to and it’s a set up date) that my wife will let hm have sex. Of course only with a condom lol.
Jackie has complained to me a few times of all the men her gf has set her up with. That she didn’t want to have sex with them but felt guilty since she knew they expected it and she did go out with them. Her simple mind at times is crazy, but at the same time, my dick gets harder than ever listening to her tell me how these guys have fucked her and she let them and that she has fucked so many in the months away from me.
One time I went over there, and it was a sat morning and the roommate/gf let me in. I asked where Jackie was, she said she is still sleeping you can go in.
I open the door and there is Jackie and some other guy, both naked, two condoms laying on the floor by his side of the bed. I closed the door and saw her gf snickering at me. Then she said “that guy has fucked her a good ten times”. She told me it was her goal to see Jackie fucks as many guys as possible so she will not go back to me. I just left.
Jackie still has never told me she sucks cock like a pro. I have no idea if she is sucking others besides her black bf. I hope that she will expand that skill to me when she becomes my wife again lol.
I am not all that different from other husbands in that I would love to see my wife get fucked by someone else. And if that someone else were black it would be even better!
I brought it up to her a few times over the years and man did she shoot that down quick. I should have expected it though. She is very reserved, old fashioned. I am only the second person she had sex with too. We married at 21, dated two years before that. We are both 49.
Jackie has taken very good care of herself over the years. She likes to work out and at 49 is in amazing shape. She is 5ft 8in 130, long brunette, 34C. Her breast sag some, but not enough to kick her out of bed that’s for sure, she is very hot looking naked. I on the other hand spend to much time tied to the desk at work. I am 5ft 10in, about 220 brn/brn.
So as the years went by, I was always thinking how I could get her to sleep with someone else. Our sex life was very boring. We kissed, petted, and had intercourse. She was not interested in sucking my dick, and actually said it was a dirty act early on when I suggested it. Funny though, she has no issue with me performing oral sex on her. Also, she only orgasms from oral sex, so maybe that’s why she never stopped me.
Last year as I was again pondering how to get her to let me see her fuck someone I came upon an Idea. I was in one of the chat rooms I like to frequent and there was a guy with the screen name cuckold therapist. It occurred to me that she might fall for that.
See, you have to know my wife. She can be very simple at times. You know the term, dumb blond? Well that is her, at times. Yes, she is a brunette, but you get the picture. And don’t think I am just disparaging her, I love her to death. She has a master’s degree in education. She is very smart in some ways. She processes things differently though. This would come to haunt me as I went down this path. The one thing I thought would work to my advantage would also bite me in the end.
So I started looking for a guy online. I found one on reddit that was close, and chatted on line with him a few times. He seemed very cool, so I then set up a meet for me and him so I could better explain it and see if he was up for a challenge.
We met at a local bar, and he was quite impressive in just his looks. He was 40, tall at about 6ft 3in and pretty fit. He told me he was a HS football coach in a nearby town, married and was just looking to fuck a white woman and not looking for any drama. To me he fit the bill to a T.
I then explained to him what I needed. He needed to be a counselor when he met Jackie. Our sex was boring, and even she was not overly thrilled with it. Since she only had one lover before me, she had very little experience. My plan or idea was for him to talk to her about it maybe a few times, then he would tell her he needed to also be physical with her, that showing her was key to her learning and understanding what she is capable of. He just laughed, but said he got it and would work on ways to make her believe it when we met.
I was still pretty anxious about this, I mean here I was very close to making this happen and I starting to wonder if I was nuts for doing this. I kept in touch with him as I pondered should I do it or not and finally told hm I would talk to her.
So on a weekend last September I brought up our sex life to her and asked her how she would rate it. She was a bit irritated with me for asking saying why did it matter, so I pressed her to give it a score from 1 to 10, she gave it a 5 which I was happy she did, it made my case. Then I told her I felt the same way and that it is a shame we both think that and are married so long.
I told her I had reached out to a counselor in that field and inquired on what they could do for us. She was shocked, said that she was unsure she wanted to talk to a stranger about our sex life. I told her I understood, but that so many years had gone by and we did nothing, that it seemed wrong. She said she was open to talking to me, but still apprehensive about it all.
We had sex that night and she said that she loved me and that she felt that if I thought it was that important that she would do it with me, and that just me caring enough to do this made her love me more. I felt like an asshole for lying to her and tricking her, but god I got hard thinking about how this might actually happen! So I set up a meeting in a hotel bar a few weeks down the road. It would not be busy but someplace more comfortable for us to meet the first time.
So the day of the meeting she is dressed nice in a skirt and blouse, nothing to sexy or slutty, but very nice. We get there and she has her pen and paper out, she has questions she has prepared and I am laughing inside. Again, you have to know my wife. So he starts talking and if I didn’t know he was a coach, I would have thought he was the real deal counselor.
They talked a lot, I chimed in here and there and it was pretty interesting. She was embarrassed at times as he asked her about her sex.
Did she enjoy sex, yes
Dose she orgasm from intercourse, No
Has she ever? No
Did she orgasm from oral sex, Yes
Did she give oral sex, No
Has she tried anal sex? Never
How many lovers has she had including me? 2
Does she think size matters? No
He was very thorough. We ended the meeting with a handshake and a hug from them. He suggested another meeting in two weeks. She said ok.
Nothing changed in our sex life, not that I expected that either. She was a bit turned on from all the talk so that helped I guess.
So in two weeks we had him to our house now so we could be more private. There was more talk about sexual acts, he asking her if she would be open to trying oral on me, and she saying no, its not her thing. He talked about her experience with the man before me and she told him all about that. It was nothing but what we have. More and more personal questions and suggestions and more frank discussions. I was impressed with how he made her believe he was legit. We finished again, them hugging and he and I shaking hands.
So the third time it was more of the same, but then towards the end he said that we had reached a point that there was not much more to say. That usually with couples or women at this point he transitions to a more physical approach and that this is fairly common in the industry with these type issues. I could see her face of confusion. She asked him what he meant. He said that he usually with the couple have sex. Not him and the husband, but him and that wife, and that he shows her things, and allows her to see things that she can not see with her husband.
Her face was red as it occurred to her what he was saying. She blurted out “you mean you have sex with me?” He calmly said, it was the only way that most women can see what is possible is if they experience it. We can talk all day, but feeling it, understanding it for yourself is really the only way. Yes, it is quite personal, and I know not all couples want to go that far. But for those that have, I can tell you they are much happier sexually now.
I jumped in and said that I could see how that could work, but that it was a huge step, and that we should consider it, but at the same time maybe we should talk about it. I didn’t want her to think I was to eager and pushing her into this, I wanted this to be her idea.
We ended with again them hugging, touching more.
When he left she was walking around like a confused person lol. Mumbling, sex with someone else, sex with a black man? I was just laughing inside but trying to be serious on the outside. She said she might not be able to do that! That would be wrong, how could anyone be expected to do that. I assured her that there were no expectations. That only if she felt there was a hope of some improvement that then she might consider it. I told her that it was fully up to her and that I even myself was not sure I could handle it, but that I wanted her happy and any cost, and if she chose to allow the sex, that I would fully support her.
I told her also that I heard that many black men were exceptional in bed and then asked her if the black man white woman conversation ever came up with her and her gf’s? She blushed and said yes, that many times they had talked about it, but that so far most never experienced that and she was unsure there was any truth to it. I told her I to had heard many of those same stories and that yes, I am sure some where just that, but you know the term where there is smoke there is fire, so there had to be some truth to them.
That night in bed, she was even more into it, something more exciting I guess, as I did mention her having some sort of sex with a black man, someone new. touching her personally, in over 26 years, had to be a little exciting. When I did go down on her to make her cum she was super wet and came very quickly. I was thinking I was close!!
It took her a few days to process it and I had been talking to him on the side letting him know what was going on. So finally, she said that she would be open, that she thought it highly odd, and that it would be extremely awkward but that to make progress she would try. I had the hardest hardon you could possibly have when she told me. I called him instantly, we set it up for a week later, I said I would get a hotel, might make it easier on her.
So we go, she is just in casual clothes, in her mind this is a medical, therapy session. I am fucking bouncing off the walls inside thinking today is the day I am finally going to see her get fucked and it’s a black stud!.
So they start by sitting on the bed and talking, he explained that this would be longer than the normal hour since there would be no need to rush or put pressure on anyone, so we could relax and take our time. I had brought some drinks which she said was odd since this was a therapy session, but I said that although yes it was, she might want one to relax considering.
We all had a drink while they talked, and he then suggested they undress. She hesitated, I thought she might run, but then said ok, and got up as did he and both undressed. It was almost clinical lol.
As I told you before, she has a great body, her pussy is not shaved, but it is trimmed some, not much but some. So here she is now standing and as he undresses, he is very fit, and his cock was fucking impressive. I am not bi but you have to admire a guy who is packing. He was still soft, but it was a good 5 maybe 6 inches long, hanging and very thick, I was so eager to see what it ended up when it got hard.
So now they are on the bed and she Is laying down on her back and he is telling her he is going to touch her, It is almost like a doctor, he played the role so well I would have been fooled had I not known this was all a game to him and I.
So he is touching her asking her if she likes things and seeing her reaction, he asks her to touch him to get her reaction to touching someone new. Soon her legs are open and he is eating her.. I could tell she is close, and he stops. I can see in her face she is wanting him to keep going, as this is how she orgasms with me, I get the feeling she thinks he missed the timing. He moved up, kissing her breasts, her breathing was heavy now as she was laying there, her legs spread wide open..
He spent some more time on her nipples, breasts her hands finally moving up to his body now, holding him, past the point of being clinical, she was his, into the sex now, as he then knelt up and reached for a condom and asked her if she was ok and ready, she said yes.
His cock was a good 8in, maybe more, and so very very thick! I only know from him asking her about her first lover that he was much like me, about 5 and not very thick. This black cock was really going to stretch her. I watched him as he was kneeling between her legs.. telling her what he was going to do slowly, he was not putting the condom on yet, his cock hard, pointing out, it was only about a foot from her face, her eyes intently staring at it as he told her what was going to happen and asking her if this is what she wanted, she said yes.
Her breathing heavy and fast, and her eyes riveted to his cock as he now slowly put the condom on and then moved down between her legs. His cock now at her hairy entrance, his hands working her pussy telling her now how wet she was, he took his cock head and slowly worked it up and down her slit, spready the juices all over, her breathing sharp as his cockhead hit her clit, then down again, slowly now working his cock in her tight pussy.
He really took his time, going barely a half inch every few seconds and then slowing coming out and then in.. letting it sit there for a while. It was probably a good 4 minutes, maybe 5 before he was fully in her. Her hips now were moving on her own, wanting him to fuck her. He then laid down on her, propping himself on his elbows as he slowly started to fuck her.
He started to ask her how it felt, she could barely answer but said good, he told her no, I want more, I want you to be very descriptive, its important. As he fucked her more and more he kept getting her to talk more and more and soon she is saying yes fuck me with that black cock, god you are so huge, yes yes fuck me.
I am in awe, my sweet, reserved, old fashioned wife, now a wonton slut being fucked by some black guy and loving it. After about 10 minutes, I can see she is about to cum, her body just reacting as she starts to spasm all over his cock, cumming hard, telling him how she is cumming. She is almost screaming, and louder than I ever heard her ever. She has a very intense orgasm and then he slows down his fucking as she regains some composure, her hands and arms holding him like a lover, like a lifeline.
He tells her to be descriptive, tell me what you just felt, she goes on about it being the first time she orgasmed from intercourse, how amazing it was, how awesome it was, how great his cock felt in her.
This goes on for a while her talking, telling him how he made the difference, he was steering the conversation some, but not a lot, just enough for her to register that it was his cock that makes the difference. Size does matter.
He had not orgasmed yet so started to go a bit faster, she said something like can you cum now, and he just laughed some. He told her she was not done orgasming. I don’t think she ever considered she could cum more than once.
He tells her she can cum again and she looks at him in amazement as he starts to fuck her faster and faster. Soon they are fucking hot and heavy again, she is getting closer and closer. He is making her talk more and more as he pulls from her the years of sexual frustration and how the pleasure today was who she really was.
She is literally lost in the passion as she is fucking him back for all she is worth. He then holds her tight and rolls over and now she is no top. It was so fucking hot to see her ride him. She rarely gets on top with me, and this was so fucking hot to see. His hands all over her breasts, playing with her nipples as she bounced up and down on his big black cock. She was talking the whole time telling him how great it felt, how she loved it and so on, if she stopped talking he would tell her to talk more, I know I was leaking cum in my pants and wanted to cum so bad, but knew if I even went to unbutton my pants I would cum so just watched.
It was another 5, maybe 10 minutes and she was having her second orgasm and man was she loud! She was shaking, almost crying as her whole body shook as she came hard on him. She sat there, almost exhausted as her whole body felt the electricity flowing through it.
He then pulled her down to him on her side, they laid there a minute, holding each other like any normal couple. His cock was still hard and he told her to get on all 4’s, and she did, he got behind her and started to fuck her doggie. She had never wanted to do this with me, said that it was degrading, but here she was letting him and not even talking about it. He pounded her pussy for a good 4 or 5 minutes before he finally erupted.. pulling her pussy to him as he filled the condom with his cum.
He then laid back on the bed, spent. He had fucked her for a good 30 minute, they were both worn out. She has a look of pleasure on her face, I don’t know that I had ever seen before. A happy couple, both very spent. There was an awkward silence for a while, then he got into the role again and sat up and asked her if she felt ok, she said yes. He said that he hoped that she was able to learn more about her body today and that it would be a lot to process and that if she had any questions during the week, she could call him any time.
He and I both knew that was a line of shit, he was married and his wife had no clue. I looked at him and him at me and he winked at me.
They got up and dressed, as we all were ready to leave, they had an extended hug, and we walked out. That week was odd around out house, we did talk about it many times. She was honest, said that the sex she had was like she never had sex before. That he was on a whole different level compared to me or her previous lover. I said there might be things over time we could do go get close, but that I just wanted her happy.
The week had gone by and I asked her if she gave any more thought to a second session with him and she said she had thought about it. She said that she did think it would be beneficial, but that she did not want me in the room this time. She said she loved me and that this was something she needed to work on and that me being there made her a bit uncomfortable. I tried to rationalize with her how I wanted to be a part of it, but she was standing her ground. I was a bit pissed, this whole charade was for me to watch him fuck her and here she was kicking me out!
I called him and told him what was up and set up a time for the next week at our house. I had a week to figure out how to watch and started to think about how to talk her into it. We talked later that week and he told me how much he enjoyed her and how tight he thought her pussy was. I told him I was trying to get her to agree to do it again and he wanted it too. I told him how hot It was that he got her so close to cumming eating her and he just laughed. Said he wanted her to get close, that she knew that pleasure, but that he wanted her hot when he fucked her. He said “I will make you this promise, I will never eat her to an orgasm” he said that is your job, with me, she will cum on my cock only. He said as a matter of fact that he rarely even eats pussy, but that she did taste great. It is just something he is not really into. He said the women he is with all want his cock, and they just get fucked or they suck him. He is not there to eat them to any orgasm, just the way he rolls.
Try as I could, she was not budging over the week to let me stay and watch. I was not happy, but at the same time happy she was going to let him fuck her again. I asked her that when he came over if she were going to use the spare bedroom and she said no, she wanted our larger bed. I was quite shocked she picked our marriage bed, but very turned on at the same time.
Since I could not watch, I did listen and man that was hot too. My brain would let me see it from the first time while listening to it now. She was even more into it with me not there. I could tell most of her talking now was all her and not him pulling it out of her.
The sessions were every other week for about 2 months then every week. She would talk to me frankly about them after, telling me what they did, how it felt, and so on. When we had sex it was much more animated than before, but still, she was only cumming from my tongue.
I did talk to him on the side from time to time and it was all cool from his point. He said he had stopped the whole counselor talk and she had not batted an eye about it.
It was now mid January and they had started twice a week. I was not so worried, as I said, I knew he was married and he was just enjoying this fine white woman. But his doing her twice a week was now starting to impact my time with her. I had often tried for seconds, but she would tell me no way and that not only was that dirty or messy, she was way to sore to do anything after. So that left me missing a day, sometimes two and with him getting her more I was starting to get blocked out.
One day I walked in after he had left, she was still laying in bed, exhausted. He had gone to fucking her twice in the same day lately, really using her good. She was laying on her side of the bed and I walked over and as I looked over on my side of the bed there was a huge wet spot. I asked her why the spot was so large. She looked at me and said that they stopped using condoms, that for her to know fully what great sex is, she needed to know it naturally and that they had talked about it and agreed. I almost fell over, I mean that’s fucking hot, I looked at her pussy and man it was a mess, matted, wet, it was all I could do to not lick her right then and there.
Then it occurred to me, I said, and what about birth control? I had had a vasectomy about 10 year previous, so knew she was not on any at the time. She said that she had been to her doctor and told her she was having sex again with someone who was potent and that the doctor did some tests and her doctor told her that it would be like 1 in a million chance of her getting pregnant. But that if she was worried, she could go back on the pill. My wife hated the pill, it made her sick often so decided that if the chances were that high, almost nil, that she would not bother and more than likely she would not get pregnant.
I am not sure how that logic works, but she thought it was enough to then just have sex with him and no protection and not even worry about it. I was stunned, but what could I do.
A few more weeks go by and I called him again to chat as she was acting a little funny and before I talked to her I thought I might talk to him. I never mentioned to him she was no longer on any BC, I figured they had that conversation and if not, I was not going to be the one to tell him. He told me that he had been working her and that he could confidently say that she was now a qualified cock sucker. She had never sucked me. She said it was dirty and she was not going to do that. He said that it took a while and that over the weeks she got better and now is very good at it and he has her swallowing cum too. I almost came in my pants, this was awesome.
I had hoped not only for him to fuck her but somehow get her mind open to something like that and that I might get her to suck me too over time, this was amazing. I told him that if he could, he should suggest she do me too, he just laughed.
A few weeks go by, it’s a Saturday night and we had just finished sex. I had gone to the kitchen for a drink and when I got back to the bedroom she was crying. I asked her what was wrong. She said that her life was just to confusing. That all this sex with me and her sex with her bf….. that was the first time she ever said bf…if you recall, he was a counselor. I said.. wait.. your who? She said, omg.. see, that’s the problem. I am so confused. I love you, but honey, when I am with him, I think I am cheating on you. And when you and I are together like tonight, I am consumed with thinking I am cheating on him.
I tried to rationalize with her that he was there to make her happy, educate her on sex, and yes, pleasure her. That it could be common for this to happen, but to remember, he was married and is a professional, he more than likely does not have these same exact feelings. I tried to be soft and not be to blunt like he just wants to fuck you lol. But she could not hear it. She was trapped in her own mind, a husband, and a lover.
The next day she told me she was going to move out for a while. I was floored! I said why, she said she loved me, but that she had feelings for him and that if she were away, that she could then date us equally. I was beyond confused and asked, what do you mean.
She said look, we live together, we are together a lot, spend time and enjoy each other. I only get my sessions with him. If I were to leave and be apart, then I would not be spending so much time with you and I would not feel so bad that he is getting less.
You know you can argue with people, but this was beyond nuts. I tried, I tried, I tried, but she had her mind made up. Within a week she had moved in with a gf of hers. Someone whom I have never liked and knew would be trouble.
Her gf was single, very attractive, about 46, but just obnoxious if you asked me. And she felt the same way about me.
About two weeks go by and she calls, says we need to go on a date. I am in agreement, so we plan for a few days later. I pick her up and we go to dinner, its good, easy conversation, some of her time with her lover and lots of her work and the new place. We leave, go for a ride, and as we are winding down I ask if she wants to come home, spend the night, or if I could spend the night at her new place. ( I really didn’t want to go to her place since her gf would be there, but didn’t say that). She got this confused look on her face, which by now I know is her trying to figure thing out.
Some of you might think this Is her power play or her staring to cuck me, but its not. Its just who she is, her dumb blond moments that I have come to love and hate. Yes, she is a brunette, but you get the concept.
Took her a minute to formulate it, but she said “honey, you are a bf now, not my husband anymore. I love you, but we are dating, and I know its been a very long time since you were a bf, but you should remember, I don’t have sex on the first date.” And she was as serious as a heart attack.
We kissed some as I dropped her off, but there was no changing her mind. It was the 4th date before we fucked, and then as all good bf’s do, you have to wear a condom.
This has been the way she and I have had sex since, its now September and she is talking about coming home now.
It seems about a month after she moved in with her gf, her bf (counselor) .. brought someone with him when he came over to fuck her. It was her first time being shared. She was beside herself with anger and guilt and humiliation. But she did it. She told me about a month or two later that it happened. She was still trying to process how he was her bf but just wanted her to have sex with a stranger like that. She said she just saw herself as a slut now. I just laughed.
Her GF has set her up with no less than 10 guys. As I told you the gf hates me. And she knows my wife so well. Remember how I told you a bf has to wait until the 4 th date to get sex, well her gf knows that. And has pushed her to double date with her like 3 times a week all different guys, but over and over, till where her gf knows that if my wife dates a guy 4times. (even though she didn’t want to and it’s a set up date) that my wife will let hm have sex. Of course only with a condom lol.
Jackie has complained to me a few times of all the men her gf has set her up with. That she didn’t want to have sex with them but felt guilty since she knew they expected it and she did go out with them. Her simple mind at times is crazy, but at the same time, my dick gets harder than ever listening to her tell me how these guys have fucked her and she let them and that she has fucked so many in the months away from me.
One time I went over there, and it was a sat morning and the roommate/gf let me in. I asked where Jackie was, she said she is still sleeping you can go in.
I open the door and there is Jackie and some other guy, both naked, two condoms laying on the floor by his side of the bed. I closed the door and saw her gf snickering at me. Then she said “that guy has fucked her a good ten times”. She told me it was her goal to see Jackie fucks as many guys as possible so she will not go back to me. I just left.
Jackie still has never told me she sucks cock like a pro. I have no idea if she is sucking others besides her black bf. I hope that she will expand that skill to me when she becomes my wife again lol.
