A bit of my story

[Jerry Klagstad]

I'm embarrassed that I'm here. I met my Fiancee in college. We were great friends then became a couple. She worked at a coffee shop, where she met someone who became a friend, even to me. His name is Earl. (Names have been changed to protect ME) I knew he thought she was sexy, and I loved the parties he invited us to, the lake, the beach the conversations. He has many friends and many many beautiful girlfriends. He knows strippers, models, bartenders and waitresses. He's always around women, and I credit him for my fiancee embracing heels (He loves heels, and so do I, I loved that she started collecting them) and makeup and sexy dresses. He's turns 50 this year, but when we started hanging around him I was 21 and my fiancee was 22. My Fiancee and I are peaceful, our relationship is good, and I find her sexy, and loving and my ****** loves her. I found out she has been cheating on me, on a regular basis for who knows how long. I found out when I bought her a new phone and I gave myself access to her gmail account. I can see her backup, I can see where she is and I can see her whatsapp on our desktop. It happened in July, I was shocked. My perfect world crumbled. She suspected it, that I knew. I didn't know how to go about this new change to our lives. She stopped her activity, and I thought maybe that was the end. But it was not. She uses nicknames for people on her whatsapp, so I did not know who was who..... I was trying to figure it all out. I finally did.

On one occasion I drove 4 hrs to another city to see who she was with. I was expecting to see her and Earl. I followed her to their hotel, but I could not catch them together. I waited, glued to the laptop to see where I could confront them. I did not know what car they were driving. I finally drove to a mall at noon on the very next day after the first night. I was trying to be careful so I could confront them, nervous and anxious. I looked and looked carefully, and I finally saw her at one of those large nail salons, getting her nails done. I then looked and looked for Earl. So I waited, at a distance from the nail Salon. She came out of the nail salon, walked to couple of stores, then she walked up to a skinny, tall, Run DMC looking guy who I have never seen before and who gave her a peck on the lips and embraced her. He was definitely older than her. I felt like I was underwater. They went to the food court and ate and then left the mall. I did not confront her. I went to the first club they went to, she looked beautiful. I went to another bar and got *****. I left the next day. When she came back home, she acted normal. She and I had great sex, for hours......... I love her. I don't want to lose her, but know I might have to...

Two days later, Earl asked her if she had a good time in that other city. She said "yes". Then he asked her if she liked "His Boy", she replied, "He's cool." Then he asked her if he was a gentleman, to which she replied yes. "Did he take care of you? Was he good?"

"Yes. He was very good." she replied

He then proceeded to tell her he needed to see her as soon as she could. She replied, "Ok, like in a couple of hours."

 

[Cuckfantasies]

No need to be embarrassed, what you are writing here is what a lot of guys and couples enjoy, crave and fantasise about. It may be strange for you to comprehend this depending on how far down this road you (and your Fiancé and lovers) have gone and how much you have browsed this site but I’m sure I’m not alone here in wanting to hear more and see where this journey has taken you and where you think it will lead. Hopefully it will be with your Fiancé / Wife but perhaps the jealousy and angst of her cheating will become too much for you to bear, that’s down to you both to come to terms with.

 

[Jerry Klagstad]

No need to be embarrassed, what you are writing here is what a lot of guys and couples enjoy, crave and fantasise about. It may be strange for you to comprehend this depending on how far down this road you (and your Fiancé and lovers) have gone and how much you have browsed this site but I’m sure I’m not alone here in wanting to hear more and see where this journey has taken you and where you think it will lead. Hopefully it will be with your Fiancé / Wife but perhaps the jealousy and angst of her cheating will become too much for you to bear, that’s down to you both to come to terms with.

Well who would not be embarrassed. Never even thought about all this.. never knew all this existed like it does. In December we spoke about her being absent, or going out without me which she often does. I work swing shift, and often on Thursdays and Fridays. She admitted that she hangs out with Earl and some of his friends at times. (She always hangs out with Earl and his friends because alot of her friends do also) So she hides her lifestyle in a truth. I want her to tell me the truth, but I don't want to tell her I spied on her through her phone.

I love her so much, I can't imagine being without her. We go dancing alot, and we love going to Vegas. She loves dressing up, and we go shopping for clothes for her. I love massaging her feet when she wears heels, and when we first met she would say that she hated heels. Earl was the one that got her to try on some heels, and had me promise her to massage her feet when she would. She started wearing heels more and more often. She also embraced her curvy body and started dressing up and wearing makeup with Earls encouragement, and mine of course. I thought he was a good thing at first..... I must admit I really liked her embracing being a gorgeous busty woman. Well who knew I would be where I'm at 5 years later.

 

[Cuckfantasies]

Tricky situation- You want to broach the subject in a positive, sensitive and “surprised but it’s OK” way (or am I projecting my thoughts on you there....?) with no risk of losing her.....
Ummmmmm.....
Is there no other evidence of her infidelity?
Does she feel especially wet or lose when she comes home to you all sexed up?
Are you able to talk secretly with one of her friends husbands (must have 100% confidentiality) about them “going out” ?

 

[Jerry Klagstad]

Tricky situation- You want to broach the subject in a positive, sensitive and “surprised but it’s OK” way (or am I projecting my thoughts on you there....?) with no risk of losing her.....
Ummmmmm.....
Is there no other evidence of her infidelity?
Does she feel especially wet or lose when she comes home to you all sexed up?
Are you able to talk secretly with one of her friends husbands (must have 100% confidentiality) about them “going out” ?

Her best friends are all single. They won't tell me shit. Three years ago I had one of my best friends sister tell me i should not let her hang out with "Those Girls".

I know they call her Diamond sometimes. I think it's a nickname they use for her. I've met Earl up for some drinks and heard some comments about a certain "Diamond", but I don't know if they are talking about my fiancee. It appalls me to think they know about her cheating on me and I had no clue, and maybe I'm imagining but I hate to think some of the guys I have met have been with my fiancee. I mean I know Earl has. What on earth convinced her to sleep with him on a regular basis? His lifestyle? Porn? He's an old pervert.

So my wife wears toe rings and anklets all the time. I never thought twice about it, She does not wear any charms or symbols of swinging or anything like that...I have even bought her a toe ring and an anklet with diamonds. Now I question that..... does she wear it because of swinging?

I love woodworking, so I built her a walk in closet. It has lighted shelves for her heels, and I bought a large lingerie drawer also with lights. So she has completely filled both up. I think Earl buys her clothes, or someone else because of the sheer quantity. She still has brand new shoes and clothes in boxes. i have not been able to access her gmail account or her whatsapp for a while now. Her phone is locked so I can't go through it. Working on it.

She flies to conferences and meetings in other cities. (So she says...) So why does her luggage have sex clothing? I mean yes, it's always there. When I go out of town with her she takes the same luggage. Why does she need 20 panties, and why does she need 6 different thigh highs and garters ALL THE TIME. I checked and she washes her lingerie and puts THEM BACK IN TO HER LUGGAGE. She is having affairs.

Earl has given me the talk lots of times. I always thought he was talking about my relationship with her or other women's relationships.

He always talks about how good sex was for women, "if it's good, and healthy and they cum and cum... why would that not be good"
"all women should have lots and lots of good sex. the world would be a better place."
"hot women rule the word. it's all about them man. people who have good sex belong with each other...."
and of course he always talks about his gift to women, his dick. I always hated him talking about his dick in front of my fiancee.... but he always does that.

then of course he brags about fucking peoples wives or GF to me. I have not hung out with him since the summer. He invites me out at times, and I have refused, I tell him I cannot. Two years ago I went with him to one of his strip clubs. He's a regular there and I admit to having a good time. I had girls sitting on my lap the whole night, a couple of lap dances... I even told my fiancee about it..... and I felt so guilty. Imagine that!!!!!!!!

 

[Jerry Klagstad]

I failed to confront her this weekend, had a good weekend with her.... I'm going to confront her this week.