There are lots of beta males who wonder if they should stay a virgin, or eventually have sex when/if given the chance. By that same token, there are many women who wonder the same thing when they end up dating or marrying a virgin-beta-male. It’s important to understand that there are many reasons why it is probably a good idea for someone to remain a virgin, or if it would actually benefit anyone for them to have sex.
Here are a few things to consider (and possibly ask him) when making this decision.
It’s also important to note here that there are times when a virgin-beta-male does have sex and he ends up liking sex more than watching/masturbating. There have even been times when they answer yes to all the above questions, and still end up having sex and becoming sexually interactive with girls. But it is important to realize that this is a VERY RARE (1 out of 100) occurrence, and almost ALWAYS virgin-beta-males who end up having sex, prefer they didn’t have sex, or prefer watching and/or masturbating. This phenomenon is such a central topic within the beta community, that more and more beta-male-virgins – especially those in the younger 20’s and 30’s age group – are pledging to not even try having sex even if presented the opportunity. This is known as the “pussy-free-pledge”, and it has shown to be a highly preferred choice amongst female partners of beta-males, and a highly successful practice within relationships—especially when combined with long-term, or permanent, chastity.
In the last 3-5 years, it has also been discussed if beta-males participating in the act of using a strap-on on their S.O. takes away from their pledge as being “pussy-free.” This isn’t a concern more so than a question. The question being, “if beta-males have a mind set of not participating in the act of sex, themselves, then why would/should they participate in a faux act of having sex, even if it isn’t actually involving their penis?” The question does pose a great point, however, there seems to be an undecided answer, and most say to leave it up to the female, or the couple to decide if using a strap-on is “appropriate.”
Ultimately though, it seems to be a very concrete decision across the board, even among their female partners, that beta-male-virgins should remain virgins—this includes blowjobs, or anything where his penis would enter a girl in any way. Some couples also feel that hand-jobs should not be given, but instead a vibrator used on the outside of his chastity cage.
Here are a few things to consider (and possibly ask him) when making this decision.
- When was the last time he was in a relationship?
- Is he in chastity?
- How long has he been in chastity? Was, or has, he in chastity long enough for his penis to shrink?
- Does he watch porn? If so, how often?
- Does he watch beta-porn?
- Does he become more aroused at the idea of having sex, or does he become more aroused at the idea of watching?
It’s also important to note here that there are times when a virgin-beta-male does have sex and he ends up liking sex more than watching/masturbating. There have even been times when they answer yes to all the above questions, and still end up having sex and becoming sexually interactive with girls. But it is important to realize that this is a VERY RARE (1 out of 100) occurrence, and almost ALWAYS virgin-beta-males who end up having sex, prefer they didn’t have sex, or prefer watching and/or masturbating. This phenomenon is such a central topic within the beta community, that more and more beta-male-virgins – especially those in the younger 20’s and 30’s age group – are pledging to not even try having sex even if presented the opportunity. This is known as the “pussy-free-pledge”, and it has shown to be a highly preferred choice amongst female partners of beta-males, and a highly successful practice within relationships—especially when combined with long-term, or permanent, chastity.
In the last 3-5 years, it has also been discussed if beta-males participating in the act of using a strap-on on their S.O. takes away from their pledge as being “pussy-free.” This isn’t a concern more so than a question. The question being, “if beta-males have a mind set of not participating in the act of sex, themselves, then why would/should they participate in a faux act of having sex, even if it isn’t actually involving their penis?” The question does pose a great point, however, there seems to be an undecided answer, and most say to leave it up to the female, or the couple to decide if using a strap-on is “appropriate.”
Ultimately though, it seems to be a very concrete decision across the board, even among their female partners, that beta-male-virgins should remain virgins—this includes blowjobs, or anything where his penis would enter a girl in any way. Some couples also feel that hand-jobs should not be given, but instead a vibrator used on the outside of his chastity cage.
