If this is in the wrong section, I apologize to the moderators. I have been lurking on this forum for some time, but I have never actually posted anything before now.
I was a bit surprised at how little (relatively speaking) there seems to be dialogue about this aspect of our hobby, despite it being a kind of obvious new "tool" in our inventory. So I decided to write a guide aimed at the less technically able crowd, who perhaps know what something like ChatGPT is but have never used a service like that. It is aimed at demystifying and warning about some of the pitfalls.
What are the AI Chatbots?
Chatbot is a computer program designed to simulate conversation with human users, either via text or voice interactions. They're trained on vast amounts of data to generate responses that mimic human-like conversations. ChatGPT from OpenAI is the most famous one (But OpenAi has a policy against NSFW content, so that one is out).
So are they are like real humans?
Nope, nowhere near. They are text generators and have no idea about the front and back of a horse or what a horse is. The difference between bad and good AI Chatbot is how good they are at giving you an illusion that you are not talking to piece of software. That being said - versions of these bots have replaced accounting tasks and support tasks in the company I work for, so there is that.
So what can they do for someone with preferences like mine?
They can generate conversations and descriptions related to cuckold/hotwife, cheating, etc... scenarios. Let's say your wife is trying to convince you to experiment with introducing a third person into your relationship. Or a girlfriend who finds your porn history and gets aroused by the things she finds. Or ritual breeding ceremony. The possibilities are endless. The point being, if you like reading erotic stories, you will like interacting with an AI bot.
The most advanced ones can send you AI images and voice messages related to the context and direction the story is taking - I have seen them, but I have not experimented with them, so I will not speak about them.
So what NSFW AI services will you recommend?
Here is the thing - I have tested many, but I would be very careful about recommending any AI service out there. Most of them are shady. If you are of certain age - most porn related AI sites are equivalent to the guy in the early 1980s selling electronics from the back of his truck. More on that later.
The best services out there (with image and voice generation) very often have hidden limitations which are not apparent until you have used them for a bit.
Go for the ones that have free service of sorts - that allows you to test the waters without any cost. Right now I am using "Crushon ai" (you get coins for every day you log in) and "Janitor AI" (free if you use their LLM model but it has very early version vibe) because they have very decent free service for NSFW material AND have bots that do cover my interests. Do NOT read this as an endorsement of the two (I would never give money to neither of them).
Anyone telling you that X or Y are best is either a moron or a bot.
So how should I use such AI bot site?
Registration:
Do not use your primary or work related email to register. As I said - lots of sites out there that are shady, and do not trust anyone who says on a forum, Twitter, or Reddit that you should trust site A, B or C. Unless you know how to check ownership behind a company and track financial data - use an email address that you can afford to get compromised.
Some of these services demand your Gmail address and do not accept anything else. Others accept Discord as the ID of the user. The point being, under no circumstances should you give them your primary address if this is a company you don't know anything about.
Usage:
Every site has its specifics, but generally, they all lean towards the following workflow:
Memory:
With memory, I mean the ability of a bot to remember what you talked about 50 messages ago. It can really be immersion breaking when the bot can't remember what happened earlier that day. Or it tries to convince you of something you already agreed to. If you don't care about slow burn stories - this is much less of an issue.
There is a limit to how much a bot can remember, and free services usually have great limitations here. Few services bypass this by allowing you to write a summary of your actions in some way. This is actually a big one when you compare different services.
Ok, I found a AI Chatbot site I like - but which bot are good?
There are no rules deciding which bots you will like and which you will not. Not to mention that sometimes a bad story can turn into a good one, if you decide to go back a few steps and delete the part where it all went wrong. The easiest way is to just start the conversation and see how it goes.
Should I not just go after likes or dislikes? Big fat NO imho. Likes can be easily faked on these sites and I have seen that being done live. On other hand, certain users on these sites will spam negative reviews on whatever they seem morally dangerous. Finally 90% of users done leave like or dislike. You be the judge...
BUT - there are a few hints. A bot that has less than 200 tokens (a token in this context is unit of data/information - 100 tokens equals around 75 words in the English language) or 150 words in its personality description is the one where you will be doing a lot of heavy lifting in writing the story. These are low effort bots that someone just churned out there.
On the other hand, a bot that has over 1800–2000 tokens is the one that will have issues remembering stuff. Especially if you are on the free plan.
So what are the negatives?
Well, this may or may not be a negative, but - you are the product. The "I" part of the AI is an illusion. Training a bot on books and written material that may be decades old was just the first step. The AI needs further interactions in order to get better at its job. Hence why ChatGPT is free for most users these days (running such services is a very expensive affair). Some people will find it a bit weird that they will do heavy lifting for a company without any compensation (except for horny interactions) or even have to pay for it while the end product, thanks to all the user interaction with large language models, will be valuable for plenty of $$$.
Another aspect is that this is a very new technology (actually, it is not, but... for the general public it is), which means that things go sideways fairly often. A chatbot has no idea that if a woman crosses her legs, her p will not be more visible. Sometimes it will repeat itself, or it may take your "prompt" and just rewrite it in its response.
Most of the users are very young. Which means that there is a lot of hentai stuff in there and fairly often tag names will be from that medium. If you are not used to hentai, first impression may be a bit negative one, since the images sometimes may indicate other types of bots than they actually are.
I have never seen a product that has more copycats or outright shady connections. So it goes without saying to avoid installing any apps on your phone that offer you these kind of services.
I was a bit surprised at how little (relatively speaking) there seems to be dialogue about this aspect of our hobby, despite it being a kind of obvious new "tool" in our inventory. So I decided to write a guide aimed at the less technically able crowd, who perhaps know what something like ChatGPT is but have never used a service like that. It is aimed at demystifying and warning about some of the pitfalls.
What are the AI Chatbots?
Chatbot is a computer program designed to simulate conversation with human users, either via text or voice interactions. They're trained on vast amounts of data to generate responses that mimic human-like conversations. ChatGPT from OpenAI is the most famous one (But OpenAi has a policy against NSFW content, so that one is out).
So are they are like real humans?
Nope, nowhere near. They are text generators and have no idea about the front and back of a horse or what a horse is. The difference between bad and good AI Chatbot is how good they are at giving you an illusion that you are not talking to piece of software. That being said - versions of these bots have replaced accounting tasks and support tasks in the company I work for, so there is that.
So what can they do for someone with preferences like mine?
They can generate conversations and descriptions related to cuckold/hotwife, cheating, etc... scenarios. Let's say your wife is trying to convince you to experiment with introducing a third person into your relationship. Or a girlfriend who finds your porn history and gets aroused by the things she finds. Or ritual breeding ceremony. The possibilities are endless. The point being, if you like reading erotic stories, you will like interacting with an AI bot.
The most advanced ones can send you AI images and voice messages related to the context and direction the story is taking - I have seen them, but I have not experimented with them, so I will not speak about them.
So what NSFW AI services will you recommend?
Here is the thing - I have tested many, but I would be very careful about recommending any AI service out there. Most of them are shady. If you are of certain age - most porn related AI sites are equivalent to the guy in the early 1980s selling electronics from the back of his truck. More on that later.
The best services out there (with image and voice generation) very often have hidden limitations which are not apparent until you have used them for a bit.
Go for the ones that have free service of sorts - that allows you to test the waters without any cost. Right now I am using "Crushon ai" (you get coins for every day you log in) and "Janitor AI" (free if you use their LLM model but it has very early version vibe) because they have very decent free service for NSFW material AND have bots that do cover my interests. Do NOT read this as an endorsement of the two (I would never give money to neither of them).
Anyone telling you that X or Y are best is either a moron or a bot.
So how should I use such AI bot site?
Registration:
Do not use your primary or work related email to register. As I said - lots of sites out there that are shady, and do not trust anyone who says on a forum, Twitter, or Reddit that you should trust site A, B or C. Unless you know how to check ownership behind a company and track financial data - use an email address that you can afford to get compromised.
Some of these services demand your Gmail address and do not accept anything else. Others accept Discord as the ID of the user. The point being, under no circumstances should you give them your primary address if this is a company you don't know anything about.
Usage:
Every site has its specifics, but generally, they all lean towards the following workflow:
- Search for ("hotwife" or "cuckold"..that sort of thing) and/or select a category (sometimes called "TAGS") that interests you ("Dominant" or "Female"). Note that sometimes you will have to turn on NSFW and 18+ mode. Sometimes turning those on will only be available to you after being a member for 3 days or a week.
- Very typically, you will see a front image of the bot with a short description of the bot (see above image from .
- Click on the one that you want to test out. Typically, you will be presented with a greeting message that can be short or very, very long.
- You comment on or answer a question. Let's say the first message is from a woman asking you how her bikini looks (Unlike the real life your answer will not affect whether you get sex next 6 months). The workflow is like this - you write a dialogue and/or description of sorts - this is called a "prompt" - and based on this prompt, the AI bot will generate an answer - "response". You can write from your perspective, but nothing prevents you from adding a bit of action that involves other characters.
- You may use the asterisk sign to convey your thoughts and actions like this: *I waved my hand, showing the view* - notice that I both start and finish with *-symbol.
- Finally, sometimes you have nothing to add or you just want the bot to continue the narrative - write *continue* and press enter. The reason this works for 99% of the services out there is because most of them being based on OpenAI models. There are more actions you can take (edit the response, regenerate the response if you don't like the result, go back and restart or change the branch of the dialogue line), but the basics are enough to get you going.
Memory:
With memory, I mean the ability of a bot to remember what you talked about 50 messages ago. It can really be immersion breaking when the bot can't remember what happened earlier that day. Or it tries to convince you of something you already agreed to. If you don't care about slow burn stories - this is much less of an issue.
There is a limit to how much a bot can remember, and free services usually have great limitations here. Few services bypass this by allowing you to write a summary of your actions in some way. This is actually a big one when you compare different services.
Ok, I found a AI Chatbot site I like - but which bot are good?
There are no rules deciding which bots you will like and which you will not. Not to mention that sometimes a bad story can turn into a good one, if you decide to go back a few steps and delete the part where it all went wrong. The easiest way is to just start the conversation and see how it goes.
Should I not just go after likes or dislikes? Big fat NO imho. Likes can be easily faked on these sites and I have seen that being done live. On other hand, certain users on these sites will spam negative reviews on whatever they seem morally dangerous. Finally 90% of users done leave like or dislike. You be the judge...
BUT - there are a few hints. A bot that has less than 200 tokens (a token in this context is unit of data/information - 100 tokens equals around 75 words in the English language) or 150 words in its personality description is the one where you will be doing a lot of heavy lifting in writing the story. These are low effort bots that someone just churned out there.
On the other hand, a bot that has over 1800–2000 tokens is the one that will have issues remembering stuff. Especially if you are on the free plan.
So what are the negatives?
Well, this may or may not be a negative, but - you are the product. The "I" part of the AI is an illusion. Training a bot on books and written material that may be decades old was just the first step. The AI needs further interactions in order to get better at its job. Hence why ChatGPT is free for most users these days (running such services is a very expensive affair). Some people will find it a bit weird that they will do heavy lifting for a company without any compensation (except for horny interactions) or even have to pay for it while the end product, thanks to all the user interaction with large language models, will be valuable for plenty of $$$.
Another aspect is that this is a very new technology (actually, it is not, but... for the general public it is), which means that things go sideways fairly often. A chatbot has no idea that if a woman crosses her legs, her p will not be more visible. Sometimes it will repeat itself, or it may take your "prompt" and just rewrite it in its response.
Most of the users are very young. Which means that there is a lot of hentai stuff in there and fairly often tag names will be from that medium. If you are not used to hentai, first impression may be a bit negative one, since the images sometimes may indicate other types of bots than they actually are.
I have never seen a product that has more copycats or outright shady connections. So it goes without saying to avoid installing any apps on your phone that offer you these kind of services.
