A question for white Transgirls

[subsmallballs]

Hi everyone,

I don't wish to offend anyone in the trans community in anyway but i am very curious to know what the factors were in your desire to transition.

Specifically, was one of the factors a need to feminize in order that you might appeal to Black Men more and thereby have more chance of serving as their bitch.

 

[Saphira]

Let's first difference the 2 things.

Appealing black men's and serving are majoritarly Fantasy, kinks, arousal factors.

Transitioning in itself is a very profound decision, and it results in most cases from the intimate feeling of being born in the wrong body.

Porn can have that way of influencing your (in general) vision of something, example with chastity porn where you more and more think that it's something natural and mandatory, when a few years before you wanted to put your dick in every hole. That's the effect porn have.
Now of course, if you've ingested Dozens of Terras of Trans blacked porn and sissy feminization surgery porn, you could think they're related, but in my very own opinion, it is not at all.
Transitioning is something you feel inside of you, you feel you're not like you should be, you think about it and reflect on yourself every single second of your life until it becomes more and more clear to you what to do with yourself. It's really hard and demanding mentally, it's exhausting and really a terrible thing to experience.
I honestly wouldn't wish my worse enemy to have those thoughts, because it is just permanent depression and social humiliation and hate. Only because you feel alone and bad.

Yes, in time like those, some turns to smoke, some to drugs and some to porn. In these dark times of someone's mind, porn can have a heavier affect because of 2 things : how vulnerable you are, and how accepting porn is.
In pornography you can be anything you want to be, same as videogames for examples. (That's why so many smelly WoW players plays Elves women and why Bayonetta was created) (or catwoman)
Porn let's you be yourself. And helps you to feed others people your vision of what sex should be. For us here, it's BNWO.

But for most Trans fem, it will stay a fantasy, because it's porn, and porn is a mean to evade from life.

You can see Transitioning as a trip around the world, and the BNWO is a country somewhere, a stop before heading forward.
Some people will just stay here because they love it and want to do more in that stop, but also some people will just visit the touristic places and go ahead on the trip.

Transition is deeper than what you except.
And pleasing men doesn't even count's in the process of your feelings of yourself.
You are you before anything else, and that's the most hard thing to decipher alone.

Who are you ?

And porn has nothing to do with the answer.




PS : sorry if the answer is a little strict and heated, it's just that it's a personal matter and I'm not very good to express myself on serious matters. I mean everything I said, but never wanted to be rude. Just 100% honest.
Peace

 

[TreehugT]

Let's first difference the 2 things.

Appealing black men's and serving are majoritarly Fantasy, kinks, arousal factors.

Transitioning in itself is a very profound decision, and it results in most cases from the intimate feeling of being born in the wrong body.

Porn can have that way of influencing your (in general) vision of something, example with chastity porn where you more and more think that it's something natural and mandatory, when a few years before you wanted to put your dick in every hole. That's the effect porn have.
Now of course, if you've ingested Dozens of Terras of Trans blacked porn and sissy feminization surgery porn, you could think they're related, but in my very own opinion, it is not at all.
Transitioning is something you feel inside of you, you feel you're not like you should be, you think about it and reflect on yourself every single second of your life until it becomes more and more clear to you what to do with yourself. It's really hard and demanding mentally, it's exhausting and really a terrible thing to experience.
I honestly wouldn't wish my worse enemy to have those thoughts, because it is just permanent depression and social humiliation and hate. Only because you feel alone and bad.

Yes, in time like those, some turns to smoke, some to drugs and some to porn. In these dark times of someone's mind, porn can have a heavier affect because of 2 things : how vulnerable you are, and how accepting porn is.
In pornography you can be anything you want to be, same as videogames for examples. (That's why so many smelly WoW players plays Elves women and why Bayonetta was created) (or catwoman)
Porn let's you be yourself. And helps you to feed others people your vision of what sex should be. For us here, it's BNWO.

But for most Trans fem, it will stay a fantasy, because it's porn, and porn is a mean to evade from life.

You can see Transitioning as a trip around the world, and the BNWO is a country somewhere, a stop before heading forward.
Some people will just stay here because they love it and want to do more in that stop, but also some people will just visit the touristic places and go ahead on the trip.

Transition is deeper than what you except.
And pleasing men doesn't even count's in the process of your feelings of yourself.
You are you before anything else, and that's the most hard thing to decipher alone.

Who are you ?

And porn has nothing to do with the answer.




PS : sorry if the answer is a little strict and heated, it's just that it's a personal matter and I'm not very good to express myself on serious matters. I mean everything I said, but never wanted to be rude. Just 100% honest.
Peace

A well-measured, genuine response on this forum? Illegal, directly to jail with you.

Kidding, of course.

To add onto your point... As a very intelligent person once said, media is bad at changing people's behaviors, okay at changing the way people think about things, and good at changing people's values. Seeing a bunch of violence on TV doesn't make you go out and hurt someone, but it does make you think the world is more violent than it really is, and it makes you more okay with violence in general. In the same vein (and I'm being extremely careful here because this is a tricky subject), erotic media does not cause anyone to transition. That's ultimately an internal process. As you say, it's something you "feel inside you." However, that media may make them see transitioning as more valid, or more socially accepted.

But erotic media, especially pornography, is complicated. There's a lot of baggage with how much exposure people have to trans people via pornography, because even trans people end up having to sort through that baggage themselves - baggage about objectification, a feeling that they exist on the fringes, and some other really awful stuff. I know many transfems who've distanced themselves from the sissy kink after using it as their first place to explore their gender, but now look back on it and wince at a lot of the misogyny there.

For me, the sissy kink and raceplay has helped me to accept my bisexuality, but I'd have gotten there on my own without it. I still enjoy these kinks years on now, but I play responsibly. My experiences learning about my sexuality don't neatly map onto explorations of gender, obviously, but it's near enough that I felt it pertinent to share.

 

[subsmallballs]

Let's first difference the 2 things.

Appealing black men's and serving are majoritarly Fantasy, kinks, arousal factors.

Transitioning in itself is a very profound decision, and it results in most cases from the intimate feeling of being born in the wrong body.

Porn can have that way of influencing your (in general) vision of something, example with chastity porn where you more and more think that it's something natural and mandatory, when a few years before you wanted to put your dick in every hole. That's the effect porn have.
Now of course, if you've ingested Dozens of Terras of Trans blacked porn and sissy feminization surgery porn, you could think they're related, but in my very own opinion, it is not at all.
Transitioning is something you feel inside of you, you feel you're not like you should be, you think about it and reflect on yourself every single second of your life until it becomes more and more clear to you what to do with yourself. It's really hard and demanding mentally, it's exhausting and really a terrible thing to experience.
I honestly wouldn't wish my worse enemy to have those thoughts, because it is just permanent depression and social humiliation and hate. Only because you feel alone and bad.

Yes, in time like those, some turns to smoke, some to drugs and some to porn. In these dark times of someone's mind, porn can have a heavier affect because of 2 things : how vulnerable you are, and how accepting porn is.
In pornography you can be anything you want to be, same as videogames for examples. (That's why so many smelly WoW players plays Elves women and why Bayonetta was created) (or catwoman)
Porn let's you be yourself. And helps you to feed others people your vision of what sex should be. For us here, it's BNWO.

But for most Trans fem, it will stay a fantasy, because it's porn, and porn is a mean to evade from life.

You can see Transitioning as a trip around the world, and the BNWO is a country somewhere, a stop before heading forward.
Some people will just stay here because they love it and want to do more in that stop, but also some people will just visit the touristic places and go ahead on the trip.

Transition is deeper than what you except.
And pleasing men doesn't even count's in the process of your feelings of yourself.
You are you before anything else, and that's the most hard thing to decipher alone.

Who are you ?

And porn has nothing to do with the answer.




PS : sorry if the answer is a little strict and heated, it's just that it's a personal matter and I'm not very good to express myself on serious matters. I mean everything I said, but never wanted to be rude. Just 100% honest.
Peace

I am very grateful for your answer Saphira and I don't at all feel you are being rude. I really appreciate that making the decision to be trans is a much more personal one about who you feel you really are as an individual and the rest is more fantasy and escapism.

I very much enjoy the BNWO porn genre/fantasy though and especially where it involves feminized white males. Some of my favourite role models of white "masculinity" in this respect are transgirl pre-op pornstars like Natalie Mars and Ella Hollywood and I think this is where my question stemmed from as I have seen how much they seem to enjoy worshiping a Black cock.

I wish you all the best in your journey and hope you find contentment...