Thanks for your insights on SA.
I've met a South African guy online, but we haven met in person yet. We just exchange the odd email, and we skype chatted once.
What you say really intrigues me, and I find it difficult to imagine. Black guys outnumber whites 11 to 1, yet it's still a white dominated country?! Seems unstable. If I was in a place with that many black men, not sure what I would do!