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thank you for the opportunity to express some thoughts on this. I find the most erotic scenarios to be those where the wife's bull is the one person in charge, of both hubby and wife. While it is exciting to see wives turned into bitches who support and even lead the degradation of the hubby, I personally enjoy more where the females are not domme to their spouses but the bull is totally in charge and in fact adds to the couple's subjugation by training the hubby to serve cock too. That said, the difference is only a matter of degree - i.e. it is not an either/or thing for me, just a slight preference for the female to be not in charge of anything, especially if she is slowly turned from a prim and proper miss into a cock-loving slut.
 
Thats probably more or less correct. At least on this site. On Literotica, any cuckold story gets downvoted automatically by people pretty much because its a cuckold story. But I doubt many would be doing that here.
 
I have a slightly different view from Tom Collins preference. I very much prefer the wife/girlfriend to play a prominent role in subjugating and humiliating the cuckold. This could be complicit with or absence of the Bull. The woman initially identifying their man as weak and submissive, then exploiting the situation for her own means builds tension before, during and after taking a bull or bulls. The power trip the woman goes on and sometimes stays on is a key factor for me.
 
I have a slightly different view from Tom Collins preference. I very much prefer the wife/girlfriend to play a prominent role in subjugating and humiliating the cuckold. This could be complicit with or absence of the Bull. The woman initially identifying their man as weak and submissive, then exploiting the situation for her own means builds tension before, during and after taking a bull or bulls. The power trip the woman goes on and sometimes stays on is a key factor for me.

Fair comment 3ballz (and an intriguing nickname!). To each his own I say, but let me just add that i go back and forth depending on my mood. There are times when I crave a story about a bitch who brings her wimp to heel, literally. Variety is the spice of life
 
I tend to agree with Tom Collins and in my case my tastes and appreciation will move back and forth across the spectrum a bit. The central theme is of course my wife submitting to and taking a bbc lover. A well written cuckold submissive role can enhance that and a really hot theme for me is for the cuckold to become a feminized sissy bbc slut as well. Sometimes extending the bbc ownership across the family is also enjoyable but it depends upon how well written (and perhaps how horny I am). Certainly, I always enjoy the wife (and perhaps family) knowing of and even watching the cuckold's surrender to bbc lust. Not a big fan of scat, hard bdsm, or wet play though I can tolerate that if the rest of the story works for me.
 
AllenJ raises a couple of my personal hot buttons that I had neglected to mention - the cuckold being feminized and the family (and friends) knowing of his subjugation. Thinking further on this, i confess that almost any situation where the hubby loses power in a relationship (as hubby, dad, employee, whatever) and is strippped of his normal masculine role tickles my fancy.
 
I would certainly agree with you Tom that the subjugation, feminization and loss of power for the husband is a big turn on. It's probably more that I like to see the wife being the prominent orchestrator in his demise rather than the bull. However, we are dealing in fine margins and I'm sure you would agree with me that Lutheran Maid's stories are among the finest written.
 
I would certainly agree with you Tom that the subjugation, feminization and loss of power for the husband is a big turn on. It's probably more that I like to see the wife being the prominent orchestrator in his demise rather than the bull. However, we are dealing in fine margins and I'm sure you would agree with me that Lutheran Maid's stories are among the finest written.

That's a very generous compliment 3baliz, thank you. I'm fascinated by this. Yes because cuckolding turns me on too. Yes because I think it liberating in several regards. It offers the paradox of female empowerment through a more submissive role with a more powerful alpha male. That which seems notionally manipulative, woman used, is transformed, or at least augmented, as she then dominates a weaker male. It offers her the prospect of exploring bitch hood in both it's submissive and its aggressive controlling guises. Much has been made as to why erotic writing appeals to men (? helping them explore their sexuality) but less so to women. I suppose that the literature seems less appealing when it is largely visual, descriptive largely of sexual acts. I believe though that when you write more deeply about the fucking of the mind and with the mind, that there is greater scope to appeal to women too. What if I really did think like that? What would it feel like, mean, to do this to him? Context is important, the relationship, fucking is much more than a grunting act. So I write quite psychologically. I hope that female readers too might enjoy reading the stories. The indulgent submission to a powerful male, the co operation (if not the leadership) in humiliating another man.

I'm currently preparing a book on this theme, 'Alpha Coupling' which will story at greater length the relationship between a psychological dominant wife, her well educated, suave and powerful black lover and an eclipsed husband. The themes are quite familiar, black breeding, humiliation, a woman transforming how she sees herself and what that then permits. But what a book length story permits is a more gradual and nuanced building of the story and the events of tangled lives. I'm going to publish this via Amazon and whilst such volumes aren't likely to see me or other writers retire on proceeds, I do think that it offers interested readers developments in a better way that sequence stories (part 3,4,5 etc) on a blog.
 
First, I agree totally with 3ballz that Lutheran Maid writes some of the best stories I have ever read - they never fail to make my little dick hard. And Lutheran Maid, I think that is because you dwell so much on what is going on in the minds of the characters. That fits with my belief that the mind is the most powerful sex organ we have. Being male, I had not thought about the concept of female liberation through subjugating her husband, even as she herself becomes submissive to a superior male, but I can see your point and I wonder if female readers pick up on that as well. Whatever, Lutheran Maid please keep doing what you so so well and thank you for the pleasure you provide.
 
First, I agree totally with 3ballz that Lutheran Maid writes some of the best stories I have ever read - they never fail to make my little dick hard. And Lutheran Maid, I think that is because you dwell so much on what is going on in the minds of the characters. That fits with my belief that the mind is the most powerful sex organ we have. Being male, I had not thought about the concept of female liberation through subjugating her husband, even as she herself becomes submissive to a superior male, but I can see your point and I wonder if female readers pick up on that as well. Whatever, Lutheran Maid please keep doing what you so so well and thank you for the pleasure you provide.

Tom, I think of it this way. Whilst men and women might be predisposed to think of sex in particular gender ways, that which has often been socialised through upbringing, such sexual thinking is not immutable. Men predisposed to submissive behaviour, to a woman, to her man, learn about their sexuality over time. They may wrestle with it because of the stereotypes about how men should be. I can't imagine women not travelling on discoveries of their own. They may be in different directions, but one possible path involves dominating some sorts of men and submitting to others. Irrespective of how a woman feels about it, short of rape or assault, she is the arbiter of choice, she selects who she mates with and to a large degree how. I hope that by reading about this, about the thought and emotion to do with this, she is helped to consider all the possibilities, the ones she will set aside as well as the one she will embrace. That which makes life sense to a submissive male, is made whole, perfect, by a woman ready to dominate. :)
 
A little trip through my recent story ratings reveal that I score a lot of fives (thank you very much) and some ones too (fair game). It's a famine or feast thing and I think that's worth pondering on. It's a personal theory (tell me if I'm wrong), but I believe that within the website as well as the generally curious there are two distinct groups of folk who have quite different takes on cuckold sex. Darkwanderer.

I feel like people should rate stories on how well written they are though? If the sex isn't presented in the particular way you're into maybe just don't rate it, but don't give a bad rating for that reason. It can still be well crafted even if it's not someone's particular thing.
 
I feel like people should rate stories on how well written they are though? If the sex isn't presented in the particular way you're into maybe just don't rate it, but don't give a bad rating for that reason. It can still be well crafted even if it's not someone's particular thing.

I think that is a fair comment, but what people "should" do and what people "do" do are usually wholly separate. Personally, I have an eclectic range of tastes and find I can get aroused by just about anything and anyone given the opportunity. For myself, I see ratings as a way of encouraging the writer to produce more similar content - either within a subsequent chapter in the same story or by using similar themes in another story. If I don't like a story (and by "don't like" I mean think it is offensive for the sake of being offensive, or a poorly formatted wall of text, or even just a two-paragraph wank fantasy) then I generally will not bother to vote at all. I have tried giving constructive feedback in the past on other sites, but I tend to find that such criticisms are either ignored at best or poorly received at worst "why you don't write your own if you don't like it" sort of thing. So generally I just tend to use the rating system now if I like it, or not bother to rate it at all if I don't.

I just want to pick up on another point which someone else alluded to. In the comments section of Literotica for instance you tend to get a lot of... I don't want to call them white supremacists but perhaps something close... or people that like to brag about what they would do if their wife cheated on them (seemingly ignorant to the fact that it is a wank fantasy and rarely an actual thing that has happened)... or want to demean the author for fantasizing about it/the readers for liking something which does not float their own particular boat. Those are generally the people that leave 1-star ratings and bad reviews because they are not reading it with the view of wanting it to be better, they are reading it so that they can get angry and defensive about the themes within it. I think that if it happens on Literotica then it probably happens here too. I mean, the whole "lib cuck" thing must have come out of some naive fuckwit reading about what a cuck is and then deciding to weaponize it because it is a fantasy to which they do not adhere and so want to dehumanize those that do instead. [edit] look at the furor on this site a few weeks ago when some people decided to get outraged that somebody who calls themselves scatwoman would dare to include scat without putting a disclaimer on their stories (rather than just looking at the author name first). If you don't like something that's fine, but don't have a go at the people who do just because it isn't your own particular thing.

PS. Love your stories btw Sophie, very well written. good build-up. and you appear to have a lot of scope for character development in future chapters as well. I hate (well, not hate but ...) those stories which are seemingly endless shopping lists of scenes to get through that do not bother to develop the characters at the same time - or just mindlessly reiterate variations of the same theme over and over. Keep up the good work and ignore the haters!
 
Thanks so much for the kind words! I'm so glad you've enjoyed the stories!

You are making some really good points. I never really thought about people using ratings as a tool to encourage certain types of content, but that makes a lot of sense. I guess I was thinking of them as more similar to an Amazon rating or something like that: is this a good version of what it's presenting itself as? But now you have me paranoid that all the people who read it and didn't rate it think it's trash. I'm kidding! OK I'm half-kidding.

I can understand what you mean about the haters too, and how that plays in, especially here in the US where racist fuckwits seem to be the thing we are best at producing. I have had TOTAL STRANGERS say absolutely vile things to me on social media over posts of me hanging out with a black guy, and I mean in just a normal situation like a pic at a club or out to dinner in a friend group. And it's always if it's with a guy, and funnily it's never happened if it's a pic with an Asian, Latino, etc. guy in it. It's almost like there's something going on there. And seriously are these people just trolling strangers' social media looking for stuff to get upset about? Anyway, sorry, ranting. Thanks for saying such nice things about my writing!
 
But now you have me paranoid that all the people who read it and didn't rate it think it's trash. I'm kidding! OK, I'm half-kidding.

Don't forget that is just what I try to do and even then I don't always remember; if I am mid-stroke when finishing a story that tends to take priority over logging in and leaving a rating. Also, and perhaps more importantly, don't forget that while you need to set up an account on this site to "like" a story or give it x number of stars out of 5, you don't need to set up an account simply to read the story itself.

I'd imagine there are far, far more people out there that read the stuff on this site than there are who actively want to engage with the community by setting up an account. That said, I think the ability to properly engage with authors (as you and I are now) and other like-minded individuals (I prefer the word perverts, but others might object to such nomenclature :D) is one of the best things about this site.
 
Don't forget that is just what I try to do and even then I don't always remember; if I am mid-stroke when finishing a story that tends to take priority over logging in and leaving a rating. Also, and perhaps more importantly, don't forget that while you need to set up an account on this site to "like" a story or give it x number of stars out of 5, you don't need to set up an account simply to read the story itself.

I'd imagine there are far, far more people out there that read the stuff on this site than there are who actively want to engage with the community by setting up an account. That said, I think the ability to properly engage with authors (as you and I are now) and other like-minded individuals (I prefer the word perverts, but others might object to such nomenclature :D) is one of the best things about this site.


All of those are fair points and I'm sure you're right. If someone is too busy cumming to rate my story that's the ultimate compliment right? :D I agree with your second point too. And perverts is perfectly fine nomenclature. That wouldn't make the top 50 on a list of worst things I get called on the regular. :D
 
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