Wow, thank you for sharing this origin story from your past, it was an interesting and thought provoking read. It must not have been easy for you to open like this, but was hopefully cathartic for you while exposing such personal experiences. I think your story is something a lot of us (white boys) can relate to in one way or another. Both in terms of your journey to the here and now, as well as your end result, viewing all white girls as black men’s lovers. There is a strong connection there, which many of us can’t help feeling.
As I read your words, I tried to out myself in your place, growing up in that kind of family dynamic with your mom and black stepfather and black step siblings, in that neighborhood. What a powerful set of life lessons you faced early on and clearly helped shaped you into becoming who you are today. We are all examples of our childhood and how we were raised, products of our environment, regardless if we accept the outcome or try and fight it or mask it in some manner. Acceptance is bliss, this I do sincerely believe. We are or become who we are for a reason, thinking bigger picture here. I tend to feel it shapes our purpose in life.
This evolution of the human condition, whether one wishes to sum it up as the BNWO or simply as racial progress in evening out the imbalance which has existed between white and black people for far too long. I’ve also heard it explained even as Nature’s way of beginning to make amends and pay various forms of reparations back to the black community as a whole, seeing the definitive rise of black men and black culture in our present day world, through their much deserved successes in sports, music, entertainment, business and also in relationship status too. What is happening today, was practically near impossible 100 years ago, rare even just 50 years ago, but today is becoming commonplace and expected even. The rise of the BLM and other movements of recent have further elevated the questions of equality and superiority, dominance, along with white privilege and guilt, as we dive deeper into the sea change taking place around us in the world today.
In Nature, as in science, when a reaction occurs there is often a response that is somewhat proportional to that initial action. An equal and opposite reaction typically, although the pendulum of life swings far sometimes, depending upon the energy contained in the given situation.
I do not believe it is a mere coincidence that the dramatic rise in the black community in popularity and success and being views as our peers now, is unrelated to the amazing decline of white power and privilege along with the virtual decimation of white men, now often considered to be merely white boys by many others out there. The greater the potency and dominance of black men rising has further served to dilute us white boys into the more submissive beta individuals we are without question becoming. Like yin and yang, there is a natural balance to life. We are each in our new place in life, our new roles, where we belong, for many reasons of course, but they’re all directly interrelated.
When you couple in the clearly obvious rise in interracial relationships on a worldwide basis, be they casual hookups, dating, marriage, having families, one can’t help but notice the shift of more and more white girls being with black men than at any other point in our history. It’s everywhere, it’s mainstream now, and thankfully it is being accepted on a greater scale finally. This wave isn’t subsiding anytime soon, for it is not just a trend or a fad, it’s a true revolution that is altering our way of life in ways previously thought unimaginable. Hence the greater focus also being paid attention towards it, as it is questioned, debated, loved, hated, embraced, feared, but most of all, real. This is our shared reality in 2021, our new normal.
This shift, the turning point we are facing, is as real and as amazing as a beautiful sunrise or sunset, which is also Nature’s way of showing us about balance and harmony and in a way the force of actions and reactions. As the sun rises, it’s timely as in the rise of black men too, and as the sun eventually has to set, so does the settling of white boys too. Both forces can’t happen at the same time. This is why black men are today’s leaders, influencers, idols and icons, and we white boys are becoming yesterday’s news, we are the past, our moment in the sun is passing like the light of day. We each are where we belong. But this incredible energy, that fuels this dynamic, this whole rebalancing of nature and energy, is what draws so many of us towards it’s core, towards our obsession with interracial relationships and sexuality. Specifically between white girls and black men.
That’s it. We can’t help but love it, because we know it’s right, we each feel it deep within our very soul at times. It’s unlimited attraction is perhaps the most potent force any of us have ever felt, now we are so keenly aware of it, seeing what’s happening in our life today and starting to reckon with where this new chapter may take us all one day. Speaking for myself and my wife, we welcome it with open arms and open minds. This new world may just be the greatest series of positive changes to occur to humanity in history, only time will tell. But so far, it has already told us a lot.
