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Help me get my wife to go black

Is this really the best start point? I mean do you really expect to cajole, persuade your wife to do something that she doesn't want to do? This always strikes me as quite voyeuristic, quite self centred. The premise may be, that this would be so thrilling for me, she really should try it. May be the start point should be different. Perhaps you acquaint her with different sexual possibilities? I think stories have a place here, but its sexier, more considerate, to start with the erotic possibilities of sex with someone else. Take a look at the film 5 to 7. That portrays a gallic attitude towards a wife taking a lover. It is frankly chic and probably more accessible, less uncomfortable, to a woman. After that, may be occasional reference to the fact that you don't always see yourself as the competitive or the territorial male. If you have black male friends around you both, build the social contacts and don't act territorial about your wife. That's NOT the same thing as prompting her to wear a mini skirt. Here its the importance of being unearnest. It's important not to see urgent, frantic even about this. I suspect though that this could seem scary? It admits the possibility of relationship and feeling in something she shares with a black guy. That really does threaten the husband psyche. Yet may be its at the heart of cuckold nature, instead of the voyeuristic one. May be, I don't know. Being frank with yourself first, is part of it.
 
I've heard that taking it gradually, getting her to watch IR porn with you, then getting her a black dildo, etc, just going slow, often time works. I didn't have to do that with my wife. It took almost no encouragement. She is exclusive black ever since her first guy. I get no pussy at all, but that is okay.
 
Speak clearly, plainly, and truthfully about interests desires and boundaries. Be open to new possibilities and relationships.
Respect choices.
 
arash, you are posting the exact same thing as comments on other peoples posts, but your posts are about you, not about the subject matter of the original post. Don't do that. Start your OWN post about you and your wife.
 
I have the same fantasy. Wife is not into sex much, does not drink, and will stop doing anything once she comes. Any one has a cunning plan?
 
The best way which is not forcing her,I suggest that you get a Couple who are already into the IR lifestyle and have the woman show her how wonderful and fulfilling a BBC lover can be ,,if you shouldn't try to force her...let her her know you love her her and how BBC can improve your sex life....
 
Sorry I haven't updated in forever! Not really much to update. I have tried and tried but have just given up. We don't fuck anymore. Haven't for a couple of years now. I have ED because of being a diabetic. I still get semi-hard and can cum no problem so now sex is typically me making her cum with her vibrator and then her giving me a handjob while I talk in her ear about how hot it would be to watch her get her tight pussy stretched by a thick black cock. I make comments all the time about her getting a QOS tattoo and tell her I have dreams about her having a black baby and my friends and family knowing im a cuck. It's all fun but it's not the real thing. I did buy her a realistic black dong vibrator and occasionally she will get it out and suck it for me while i watch and jerk off. That is as real as it gets unfortunately. Any suggestions?
 
And to make things really strange I have a client that is a beautiful black WOMAN who has been texting me a ton lately. She is an awesome gal and I honestly think she wants to fuck. UGH!!!!!! I'm losing it over here. Starting to fantasize and get off to thinking about getting with her!!! BTW I do have viagra to help me out if I need it!!
 
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